Ep 115: What I’m No Longer Apologizing For in Business

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on some big shifts I’ve been making, both personally and professionally. We’re talking about the patterns I’ve uncovered through therapy (like the life trap of subjugation), the quiet ways people-pleasing has shaped my business, and why I’m no longer apologizing for things like taking up space, protecting my time, or changing my mind.

This is a vulnerable one. But I have a feeling if I’ve been carrying these behaviors for 15 years, you might be carrying some of them too. And if you’ve ever over-explained, over-delivered, or made yourself smaller just to keep the peace… I hope this conversation helps you see things a little more clearly, and claim a little more space in the process.

We’ll talk about:

• The two types of people-pleasing and how they show up in business
• What the life trap of subjugation is (and how it may be shaping your decisions)
• Why I’m rethinking my Enneagram wing
• The shift from Helper to Leader
• 7 things I’m no longer apologizing for in business

This isn’t about doing less for others, it’s about finally doing something for yourself.

Ep 114: You Are Allowed to Outgrow the Person Your Business Once Needed

Have you ever looked around at your business and thought…
 “I built this. I’m proud of it. But it just doesn’t feel like me anymore”?

You’re not alone.

In this episode, we’re talking about identity shifts in business. What happens when the version of you that built your business isn’t the same version who’s running it now. And how to evolve without burning it all down.

I’m sharing my own journey, from wedding stationer to coach, and walking you through the quiet, often uncomfortable process of realizing you’ve changed. Your priorities, your capacity, your definition of success… all of it. And now your business needs to catch up.

We’ll talk about:

• Why it’s normal (and necessary) to outgrow past versions of yourself
• Common identity shifts I see entrepreneurs navigating
• Signs you’ve evolved, even if your business hasn’t yet
• What to do when your growth feels confusing, scary, or hard to explain
• How to move forward without overthinking, overexplaining, or overworking

If you’ve been feeling the nudge to do things differently, this is your permission slip.

You’re allowed to shift. You’re allowed to want something new.
You’re allowed to build a business that fits who you are now.

113: How to Build a Business That Holds You, Not the Other Way Around

If your business has started to feel… heavy, like it’s asking more of you than it’s giving, this episode is for you.

Today on the Build That Business Podcast, I’m walking you through what it really looks like to create a business that supports your life, not one that drains it. We’re talking about the difference between hustle and sustainability, and what it means to build a business that can catch you when life throws a curveball (because it will).

I’m sharing:

• The four pillars that helped me restructure my business to run with less of me, without sacrificing profit
• How a life-changing diagnosis for my son forced me to get crystal clear on what really matters
• The myth that rest is a reward, and why it’s actually the fuel that keeps your business growing
• How to create offers, systems, and support that protect your time, energy, and peace
• Why this shift isn’t just good for your wellbeing... it’s good for your revenue, too

If you’ve been craving more ease, more clarity, or just permission to build differently… this is your episode.

112: What to Prioritize in Overwhelming Seasons

Feeling stretched thin lately? This episode is for you.

Whether you’re deep in wedding season, juggling client work and family life, or just trying to stay afloat in a full season, this conversation will help you breathe a little easier and focus on what actually matters.

In this episode, I’m sharing the 5 core areas to prioritize when your calendar is packed and your capacity is low. I call them The Full Season Five. We’ll talk through what to pause (guilt-free), how to protect your energy, and how to create micro-momentum so you don’t stall out completely. You’ll also learn how to spot high-leverage moves that actually move the needle so you can keep growing, even in the chaos.

If you’ve ever thought, “I should be doing more,” this episode is your permission slip to pause, simplify, and lead with intention instead of overwhelm.

🎧 We’ll cover:

• What to actually focus on when you can’t do it all
• How to protect your time, energy, and income
• The smartest way to show up without burning out
• Why wedding shows are the most high-leverage move you can make in a full season

Grab the free training I mention in the episode:
 How to Actually Fill Up Your Calendar in One Sitting at Your Next Wedding Show
LindsayJWilliams.com/Training

And for my email and inquiry response resource, check out:
The Ghosting Buster
LindsayJWilliams.com/theghostingbuster

You’ve got this, friend. Let’s dive in.

111: Why I Believe in the Slow Rebuild

After an unplanned pause, I’m back behind the mic and today, I’m sharing what’s been unfolding behind the scenes.

This episode isn’t about a breakdown or a burnout. It’s about a quiet realignment. A shift in rhythm. A season of slowing down on purpose, not because I had to, but because I wanted to build something more grounded, intentional, and true.

If you’ve ever found yourself in a season of transition, where the old pace no longer fits, but the new path isn’t fully clear yet, this one’s for you. We’ll talk about:

• What it really means to rebuild (without rushing back to productivity)
• The myth of the “bounce-back” and why rest is a power move
• How I’m redefining success and what my workdays look like now
• The unexpected clarity that comes from stepping back
• Why you’re not starting over, you’re starting from experience

This isn’t a comeback episode. It’s a recalibration. And if you’re moving through something similar, I hope this conversation meets you where you are.

Because you’re not behind. You’re becoming. And you’re doing better than you think.

In this episode, we’re diving into one of my favorite topics… sales. But not in a pushy, awkward, “convince them” kind of way. I’m walking you through the 9 psychological triggers that cause people to take action and say yes.

These are the exact triggers I’ve used (and my students have used) to go from ghosted DMs and crickets after consults… to fully booked calendars with couples who are excited to work with you.

We’re talking:

• What makes people feel urgency and act now
• How to confidently communicate your value without discounting
• What to lead with to pull people in the door (and what NOT to)
• The moment that changed everything for me 

This episode is part strategy, part story, and packed with action steps you can implement today. If sales has ever felt intimidating or confusing, this will give you the confidence and clarity to approach it in a whole new way.

🎧 Mentioned in the episode:
 → From Booth to Booked: Winning the Wedding Show Sales Game – My free audio training series to help you follow up and close after the wedding show:
 LindsayJWilliams.com/AudioSeries

Let’s talk about it, the kind of dreaming that gets you eye rolls, second guesses, and "be realistic" comments from the sidelines.

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the mindset shift that’s changed everything in my business: giving myself full permission to dream bigger… and act from that belief. No new flashy strategy. No secret hack. Just a deeper vision and the willingness to trust it.

We’ll unpack:

• Why dreaming big isn’t frivolous,  it’s fuel
• How drift sneaks into your business (and how to snap out of it)
• The real reason your dream doesn’t need to make sense yet
• What to do when other people can’t see your vision
• A tangible framework to help you start dreaming again today

If you’ve been playing small, talking yourself out of big ideas, or waiting for someone to give you the green light… this is your episode.

Let’s stop shrinking and start building boldly.

108: The Invisible Work That Builds an Unstoppable Business

We all love the highlight reel:  the booked-out calendar, the client wins, the big moments.

But what actually builds a thriving business? It's not the shiny stuff. It's the work no one sees.

In this episode, we’re talking about the invisible work… the behind-the-scenes habits, mindset shifts, and emotional reps that quietly build a business that’s not just successful, but unshakable. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the right things but wondering why it’s not paying off yet,  this one’s for you.

I’ll walk you through 7 types of invisible work that changed everything in my own business, including:

• The kind of mindset work that no one claps for (but changes everything)
  
  
  
• Why emotional resilience is more important than getting it “right”
  
  
  
• How to build mastery, leadership, and confidence quietly — and powerfully
  
  
  
• What nervous system regulation actually looks like for business owners
  
  
  
• A peek into the reps I put in (like practicing my Wedding MBA talk in my basement 100+ times)
  
  
  
• And how to keep showing up when the results feel slow
  
  
  

This episode is your reminder that what you're building matters,  even if no one sees it yet.

You’re not behind. You’re building. And the roots you’re growing now? They’re going to hold everything you’re about to create.

If you’ve been hesitating to invest, market boldly, or finally go all-in on your business because it feels “safer” to wait — this episode is your wake-up call.

We’re talking about the real cost of playing small. Not just emotionally, but financially. Because while staying quiet might feel comfortable in the moment, it’s secretly the most expensive move you can make.

Inside this episode, I’m sharing:

• What playing small actually looks like (it’s sneakier than you think)
• The hidden opportunity cost of waiting to feel ready
• Why messy action builds momentum, and perfection keeps you stuck
• A tough-love breakdown of the myths keeping you on the sidelines
• A powerful visualization to help you choose your next move — today

This one’s bold. It’s honest. And it’s the nudge you didn’t know you needed.

You’re not stuck. You’re standing at the edge of growth.
Let’s move.

When "Good Enough" Isn’t Enough: Creating the Life You Really Want

You didn’t start your business just to have a highlight reel that looks good to everyone else.
 You started it because you were chasing something more.
 Freedom. Flexibility. A life that actually feels true to you — not just one that checks traditional boxes.

But what happens when, somewhere along the way, the thing you built looks great from the outside... but inside, something feels a little off?

In this heartfelt episode, we’re diving into:
 ➔ Why "good enough" will never be enough when your heart is meant for more
 ➔ How to reconnect with what you really want (even if it’s changed)
➔ The courage it takes to shift paths and build a life — and business — that’s truly yours

If you’ve been feeling that quiet nudge in your heart lately, this conversation is for you.
 You’re not broken.
 You’re not crazy.
 You’re right on time. ❤️

🎙️ Tune in now and let’s chat about what’s next for the life you’re meant to create.