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🎉100 episodes! Can you believe it? Three years ago, I was terrified to be on video, worried about getting it all "right." Now, this podcast has become a thriving space for deep, unfiltered conversations about non-monogamy—and it’s all thanks to you! 💜

To celebrate this milestone, I’m joined by Aly Moon, a polyamory community leader with 15+ years of non-monogamous experience and 7 years of hosting events in the Pacific Northwest. Aly is all about creating intentional, inclusive spaces where polyamorous folks can connect, learn, and grow together.  

 In this episode, we dive into:

✅ How Aly discovered her identity as an asexual relationship anarchist

✅ Finding & building polyamorous community (even if you’re new to it!)

✅ Kitchen table vs. parallel polyamory—what’s the real difference?

✅ Navigating cohabitation & co-parenting in a polycule

✅ The hidden financial perks of non-monogamous living

✅ Why serial dating is so common in polyamory—and what it means 

 💬 Aly’s Hot Take: "Monogamy in this economy? Are you kidding?" Aly shares how shared housing and polyamorous support networks offer real financial & emotional stability. 

  🌈 Live in the Pacific Northwest? Check out Poly Prom & other upcoming events at polypulse.events and meet your local polyam crew!  

 Listen now to get inspired & start building your own polyamorous support system!

✨ Special Episode 100 Celebration!

💜 I couldn’t have done this without you! Whether you’ve been here since day one or just joined, I’m so grateful for this community. Want more behind-the-scenes convos & bonus content? Join me on Patreon → www.patreon.com/notmonogamous 

💬 Comment below: What’s your biggest challenge in building polyamorous community?

  📢 Let’s Connect!

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