BURNING IN LOVE IS ONE WAY TO HEAL ABANDONMENT ISSUES

This is the path of exposure therapy.  It is the direct path to dealing with the issue.  It requires a bit of courage.  And perhaps one has to already be at a certain level of development in order to undertake this more advanced medicine.  Not everybody is ready for it.  But I see more and more people who are in fact ready for it.

One reason we are ready for it is that we are living in times of abundance.  We are not living in privation.  We are not going hungry day after day.  We are not living in fear.  We are not living day to day under fear of survival.

And the gift of these times of safety and stability and abundance is that they are an opportunity for us to examine our survival fears and to release them.

One of the biggest ways we can heal our survival fear is by detaching IMMATURE LOVE from SURVIVAL FEAR.

Let me repeat that — one of the biggest healings we need to undergo is to detach IMMATURE LOVE from our SURVIVAL FEARS.

That’s what the architecture of insecure attachment is.  That is what the nature of most people’s craving for RELATIONSHIPS is.  It is anchored in fear of survival.

As long as we keep treating love and partnerships as insurance against fear of survival, we remain scared and contracted.  We remain infantile.

There are other possibilities that exist in love apart from it being a tool for healing our childhood wounds.  One of the bigger portals that opens up for a couple when their love matures and turns away from childhood wounding is : ROMANCE!

There is a great Romance awaiting all of us when we are ready to stand burning in Love and to not let it overwhelm us with fears of the past.

—Om Rupani

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