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In this episode, host Paola Soares talks about how perfectionism is actually a form of self-sabotage.
She dives into the unexpected truth about perfectionism and how it may be silently sabotaging your life, career, and dreams. You might think of perfectionism as a pursuit of excellence, but in reality, it's often a form of self-sabotage that keeping you stuck.
She also shares personal stories and insights from her own journey of overcoming perfectionism. She explores how perfectionism shows up in everyday life, including avoidance, overworking, and the all-or-nothing thinking that holds you back from taking action.
You'll learn practical tips for moving past perfectionism—like reframing your mindset. If you've been struggling to start that project, send that email, or take that leap towards your goals, this episode is for you!
Tune in for some real talk and actionable strategies to break free from the chains of perfectionism and start making progress toward your dreams.
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In this episode, host Paola Soares chats about 7 reasons why it's crucial to start your personal brand in 2025.
Whether you're an entrepreneur, freelancer, or professional or stay at home mom, building a personal brand can open doors to new opportunities, enhance your credibility, and help you stand out in a competitive world. Tune in to discover why establishing your personal brand now will set you up for long-term growth and impact and why it's more important than ever to start building your personal brand.
Whether you're just starting or already have a personal brand, this episode will give you the motivation you need to level up and stay ahead in 2025.
Tune in, get inspired, and start building the personal brand you deserve!
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In this episode, host Paola Soares breaks down 6 ways to figure out your perfect side hustle.Whether you are over your 9-5 or looking for something that's more flexible and will lead to the life you want? Or maybe you are a stay at home mom or a part time work from home mom but you'd love to eventually have your own business… Maybe you are ok with your current situation but just something tugging at your heart telling you there is more for you out there… today's episode is for you!
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In this episode, Host Paola Soares speaks with financial coach, author and trainer Michelle Velasquez, to discuss how to confidently leave your 9-5 job and take control of your finances. Michelle shares invaluable insights on making more money, building financial confidence, and becoming a financial powerhouse—both as an individual and as a couple. If you're thinking of taking the leap into full-time entrepreneurship or simply want to level up your financial game, this episode is packed with actionable advice!
In this interview she shares how to confidently financially leave your 9-5 with confidence, how to increase how much money you make as well as how to become a financial powerhouse couple this and so much more
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In this episode, host Paola Soares breaks down 6 powerful strategies to help you set and crush your quarterly goals like a true boss. Whether you're looking to supercharge your career, business, or personal life, these actionable tips will give you the framework to plan, execute, and stay on track every quarter. Tune in to learn how to stay focused, stay motivated, and make meaningful progress toward your big dreams!
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In this episode, host Paola Soares 5 powerful steps to help you supercharge your year and set yourself up for success. From goal-setting strategies to staying focused and motivated, you'll learn actionable tips to take control of your time, productivity, and personal growth. Whether you're aiming for big career moves, personal development, or simply a more organized year, this episode has everything you need to start strong and keep the momentum going all year long. Tune in and make 2025 your most productive year yet!
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In this episode, host Paola Soares opens up about her time away from the podcast over the past year. It hasn't been a break, but a period of growth, healing, and deep reflection. From navigating the challenges of maternity leave and expanding her family, to evolving as a wife, mother, and woman. She's grown in ways she never expected, and is sharing what she learned, how she changed, and what she's been working on behind the scenes.
Going forward, you can expect more authentic and vulnerable content, a deeper focus on personal growth, and empowering conversations featuring trailblazing women with more of a focus on minority women who are doing incredible things. This journey is all about healing, self-discovery, and real talk—so stay tuned for more inspiration, insights, and authentic moments ahead!
Thanks for your patience while the podcast was on pause. We are excited to return with a new perspective and a renewed commitment to bring you the best content possible.
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In this Season finale episode, we are celebrating 100k Downloads for the podcast!!
Host Paola Soares shares her journey in this season as she pauses the podcast for 3 months for maternity leave. She also shares moments when she felt like she failed in this season and how she reframed it and why I made the counter cultural decision to completely pause the podcast for 3 months to focus on maternity leave…. This and so much more…..
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In this episode, Celebrating Hispanic Heritage Month Host Paola Soares speaks with the author of the newly released book "An American Immigrant" That recently hit the Amazon's Best Sellers List, Johanna Rojas Vann
Johanna is a professional writer whose work can be found online and within numerous publications. She is a second-generation Colombian American, with dual citizenship, and lives with her husband and children in Nashville, Tennessee. Her writing has appeared in Good Grit Magazine, Grit and Grace Life, and on her own blog, where you can read about her personal experience as an "Immigrant's daughter"…
In this interview she shares about the power in really going back and exploring where we come from, what the book writing process looks like and what steps one would have to take to get a literary agent and get their book published by a big publisher and so much more….
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In this episode, Host Paola Soares speaks with her podcast bestie Eugenia Woo, the Host of the newly launched and buzzed about, Creator To Leader Podcast.
Eugenia is a seasoned Digital Marketing Strategist who helps established entrepreneurs become thought leaders so they can scale their impact and revenue. She specializes in developing comprehensive marketing strategies, crafting compelling brand messaging, and ensuring cohesiveness across platforms.
She provides Fractional CMO services to a handful of private 6 & 7-figure clients, overseeing their entire marketing operation so they can focus on building the vision for the business.
Her clients have successfully restructured and relaunched premium offers, doubled email engagement in only a month, revitalized conversion-driven marketing funnels, and tripled podcast downloads.
Interestingly, she is a producer for the top-rated podcast, the Jasmine Star Show. She also created one of the very first podcasts in Spanish!
In this interview she shares what a Fractional CMO is and how it can be beneficial for business owners, what it means to go from creator to leader and the common mistakes she sees business owners make when it comes to their marketing strategy… This and so much more.
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