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Have you ever felt like no matter how much you accomplish, it's never enough? You continue striving forward, but it seems like the goal post keeps moving, and you can never feel fully satisfied with where you are in life. If you're feeling anxious, pressured, worried, and constantly stressing yourself with your own expectations, it may be a signal you're placing unrealistic expectations on yourself—ones that harm your mental health more than they help. In this episode, I'm talking about what it really means to hold unrealistic expectations, how they impact high achievers' mental health, and whether you should lower, adjust, or realign those expectations, to preserve both your ambition and your peace.
In this episode, you will learn:
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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.
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▶️ Watch the Free Training: Achieve a Calm Mind, Balanced Life, and Empowered Confidence in 90 Days: https://calmlycoping.com/workshop
💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message
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Want more?
👩🏽💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me
👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping
📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com
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My favorite tools:
🧘🏽♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd
✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081
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Say hi on social:
🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/
📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/
📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc
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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead
Disclaimer
All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.
*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.
If overthinking has ever gotten you to talk yourself out of doing something before you even started, you're not alone. In this episode, I'm sharing why our minds spiral into decision paralysis, how perfectionism and anxiety can sabotage our progress, and therapist-approved strategies to help you shift from spiraling thoughts to intentional action.
In this episode, you will learn:
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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.
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📝 Free Guide: Stop Overthinking and Start Relaxing: https://calmlycoping.com/overthinking
💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message
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Want more?
👩🏽💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me
👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping
📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com
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My favorite tools:
🧘🏽♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd
✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081
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Say hi on social:
🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/
📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/
📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc
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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead
Disclaimer
All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.
*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.
We often believe that if we can just control things — our environment, other people, the outcome — we'll finally feel calm. But what if the opposite is true? In this episode, I share how a daily source of frustration transformed completely when I chose acceptance over control. You'll learn how this mindset shift can improve emotion regulation, reduce anxiety, and help you navigate life with more ease, especially if you're a high-achiever who often gets caught in "shoulds" and expectations.
In this episode, you will learn:
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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.
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📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com
💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message
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Want more?
👩🏽💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me
👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping
📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com
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My favorite tools:
🧘🏽♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd
✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081
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Say hi on social:
🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/
📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/
📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc
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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead
Disclaimer
All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.
*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.
Perfectionism is one of those things that can seem like a strength on the surface, but often masks things like fear of rejection, anxiety, and a deep exhaustion from always striving. In today's episode, I'm joined by Dr. Tara Cousineau, a Harvard University clinical psychologist and author of The Perfectionist's Dilemma who has worked with high achievers for over two decades.
Tara brings both clinical expertise and personal experience to this conversation as we explore what perfectionism really is, why it shows up, and how we can begin to shift out of the cycle of never feeling enough. If you've ever felt stuck in the pressure to perform or found it hard to rest without guilt, I know this conversation will resonate with you deeply.
In this episode, you'll learn:
Connect with Tara and learn more about her book, The Perfectionist's Dilemma:
www.taracousineau.com
www.perfectionistsdilemma.com
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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.
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💌 Subscribe to the Calmly Coping Newsletter: https://calmlycoping.com/newsletter
💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message
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Want more?
👩🏽💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me
👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping
📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com
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My favorite tools:
🧘🏽♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd
✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081
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Say hi on social:
🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/
📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/
📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc
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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead
Disclaimer
All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.
*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.
Smartphones are now ubiquitous, and although they offer many benefits, they can also become a source of anxiety. Worrying about responding to notifications, the feeling of being constantly available, and coming across triggering content on social media are just a few causes. In this episode, I'm sharing the exact ways I set up and use my phone to feel calmer, more focused, and less reactive. You'll learn simple changes to reduce mindless checking, set clear boundaries, and use your phone in a way that actually supports your mental health.
In this episode, you will learn:
Mentioned in episode:
Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport
How to Break Up With Your Phone by Catherine Price
Newsfeed Eradicator Browser Plugin (Chrome/Firefox)
ScreenZen App: https://www.screenzen.co/
My favorite phone apps:
🧘🏽♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd
✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081
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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.
———————
▶️ Watch the Free Training: Achieve a Calm Mind, Balanced Life, and Empowered Confidence in 90 Days: https://calmlycoping.com/workshop
💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message
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Want more?
👩🏽💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me
👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping
📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com
———————
My favorite tools:
🧘🏽♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd
✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081
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Say hi on social:
🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/
📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/
📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc
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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead
Disclaimer
All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.
*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.
What if the way you listen could completely transform your relationships? In this episode, I sit down with longtime BBC journalist and author Emily Kasriel to explore the power of deep listening as a tool for connection, calm, and healing. We dive into how to navigate difficult conversations, be fully present with others, and create space for trust and understanding. If you're craving more meaningful interactions in a fast-paced and increasingly disconnected world, this conversation is a must-listen.
In this episode, you'll learn:
Connect with Emily:
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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.
———————
💌 Subscribe to the Calmly Coping Newsletter: https://calmlycoping.com/newsletter
💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message
———————
Want more?
👩🏽💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me
👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping
📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com
———————
My favorite tools:
🧘🏽♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd
✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081
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Say hi on social:
🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/
📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/
📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc
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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead
Disclaimer
All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.
*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.
Do you feel guilty setting boundaries? Worry about upsetting others when you say no? If the fear of disappointing people is driving your decisions, even at the expense of your own well-being, this episode is for you. You'll learn where this fear comes from, why it's so hard to let go of, and how you can start shifting out of people-pleasing so you can take care of yourself without guilt.
In this episode, you will learn:
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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.
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🎓 Get $10 off my self-paced course Get to the Root of Your Anxiety using the code PODCAST10 at checkout: http://calmlycoping.com/root
💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message
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Want more?
👩🏽💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me
👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping
📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com
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My favorite tools:
🧘🏽♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd
✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081
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Say hi on social:
🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/
📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/
📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc
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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead
Disclaimer
All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.
*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.
Do you notice your anxiety, mood, or motivation shifting with your cycle? In this episode, I'm diving into how hormone changes, especially during the pre-menstrual phase, can impact those with high-functioning anxiety, and how you can start working with your cycle rather than pushing against it. I'll be sharing practical, compassionate strategies you can start using today.
In this episode, you will learn:
Resources:
Sources:
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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.
———————
📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com
💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message
———————
Want more?
👩🏽💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me
👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping
📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com
———————
My favorite tools:
🧘🏽♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd
✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081
———————
Say hi on social:
🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/
📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/
📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc
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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead
Disclaimer
All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.
*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.
When was the last time you truly did nothing—no phone, no to-do list, no distractions? In a world that rewards constant doing, stillness can feel foreign, even uncomfortable. But if you're feeling overwhelmed, foggy, or stretched thin, the space you're avoiding might be exactly what's necessary. In this episode, we'll explore why doing nothing isn't indulgent, it's essential.
In this episode, you will learn:
Sources:
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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.
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🎓 Free 3-day Course: How To Calm Your Mind So You Can Finally Relax: https://calmlycoping.com/relax
💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message
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Want more?
👩🏽💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me
👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping
📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com
———————
My favorite tools:
🧘🏽♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd
✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081
———————
Say hi on social:
🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/
📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/
📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc
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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead
Disclaimer
All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.
*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.
It's been five years of Calmly Coping — 230 episodes, thousands of listeners, and countless lessons. In this special anniversary episode, I'm reflecting on the personal and professional growth I've experienced, and the impact you've had on this journey. Let's look back, reconnect, and look forward to what's next.
And stick around to the end — I have a big announcement about what's next for Calmly Coping!
In this episode, you will learn:
And I want to give a special shoutout to my incredible team—Rochelle, my VA, and Brianna, my editor—who have supported me behind the scenes. Calmly Coping wouldn't be what it is today without you!
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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.
———————
💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message
———————
Want more?
👩🏽💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me
👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping
📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com
———————
My favorite tools:
🧘🏽♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd
✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081
———————
Say hi on social:
🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/
📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/
📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc
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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead
Disclaimer
All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.
*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.
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