Calmly Coping

On the outside, you look like you've got it all together — successful, dependable, hardworking. But on the inside? You're stuck in the cycle of overthinking, overplanning, and overdoing. In this episode, I'm breaking down the hidden costs of high-functioning anxiety, and how to recognize the toll it may be taking on your life, along with what to do about it..

In this episode, you will learn:

• The surprising ways high-functioning anxiety shows up in daily life
• What it's really costing you beneath the surface
• A simple practice to start shifting the pattern

3-Part High-Functioning Anxiety Series:

Part 1: The Hidden Costs of High-Functioning Anxiety: this episode! Part 2: The Cycle of High-Functioning Anxiety (and How to Finally Break It): https://www.becalmwithtati.com/high-functioning-anxiety-cycle/ Part 3: 3 Lessons I've Learned Helping High Achievers Manage Anxiety: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/hfa-lessons/

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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.

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✨ Learn more about the brand new Calm & Ambitious Resource Vault: https://www.calmlycoping.com/vault

💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message

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Want more?

👩🏽‍💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me

👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping

📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com

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My favorite tools:

🧘🏽‍♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd

✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081

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Say hi on social:

🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/

📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc

💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/

📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc

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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead

Disclaimer

All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

If you've ever felt like burnout remedies just don't work for you, this episode might explain why. I'm joined by Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt—leadership wellness coach, TEDx speaker, and author—who introduces a powerful concept: sometimes what we think is burnout is actually betrayal. We explore how unspoken expectations, self-abandonment, and identity gaps can quietly exhaust us. This conversation is for every high achiever who's felt unappreciated, overextended, or lost in their own ambition.

In this episode, you will learn:

• The key difference between burnout and betrayal
• How hidden expectations and self-betrayal fuel exhaustion
• Lora's FUEL UP method for healing and reclaiming energy
• How to shift from victimhood to empowerment
• Small daily shifts to protect your energy and honor your values

Connect with Lora:

• It's Not Burnout It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive Book: https://www.amazon.com/Its-Not-Burnout-Betrayal-Thrive/dp/B0DSTSTRN1
• Free guide: Burnout Uncovered: https://workplace-burnout.com/the-top-3-ways-you-betray-yourself-every-day-and-how-to-stop/
• Lora Cheadle's Website: www.workplace-burnout.com

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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.

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💌 Subscribe to the Calmly Coping Newsletter: https://calmlycoping.com/newsletter

💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message

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Want more?

👩🏽‍💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me

👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping

📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com

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My favorite tools:

🧘🏽‍♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd

✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081

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Say hi on social:

🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/

📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc

💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/

📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc

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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead

Disclaimer

All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

You might find yourself double-checking things constantly, replaying conversations in your head, or seeking reassurance about something that doesn't feel quite right. Is it OCD? Anxiety? Or maybe just perfectionism? In this episode, I'm breaking down what OCD actually is (beyond the stereotypes), how it shows up differently than anxiety and perfectionism, what intrusive thoughts really mean, and the treatment that's most effective for creating long-term relief and change.

In this episode, you will learn:

• What OCD actually is — beyond stereotypes and overused labels
• How OCD, anxiety, and perfectionism overlap, and where they diverge
• What effective treatment looks like, and how to start shifting your relationship with intrusive thoughts

Sources:

• Perfectionism & Uncertainty: https://www.jptcp.com/index.php/jptcp/article/download/3979/3860/10231
• ERP Effectiveness: https://www.scienceworkshealth.com/post/what-is-erp-therapy-a-gentle-introduction-to-exposure-response-prevention-for-ocd

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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.

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✨ Learn more about the brand new Calm & Ambitious Resource Vault: https://www.calmlycoping.com/vault

💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message

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Want more?

👩🏽‍💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me

👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping

📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com

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My favorite tools:

🧘🏽‍♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd

✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081

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Say hi on social:

🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/

📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc

💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/

📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc

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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead

Disclaimer

All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

You're working hard. You're doing all the things. You're meeting deadlines, juggling responsibilities, and staying on top of everything... but you're also running on fumes. High performance is rewarded. But no one really talks about the cost. In today's episode, we're talking about how to perform at a high level without burning out. Because being successful shouldn't come at the expense of your well-being.

In this episode, you will learn:

• Why high performers are especially prone to burnout — and how to spot it early.
• The mindset shift that turns rest and self-care into fuel for performance.
• Practical, research-informed strategies to help you stay effective and care for yourself.

Sources:

• Effects of Chronic Stress on Cognitive Function: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2352289524000663
• Effects of Total and Partial Sleep Deprivation on Reflection Impulsivity and Risk-Taking: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7261660/

Related episodes:

• 9 essential mindset shifts for perfectionists: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/mindset-shifts-for-perfectionists/ YouTube: https://youtu.be/RmOn68XNQEI
• Do you have unrealistic expectations? https://www.becalmwithtati.com/unrealistic-expectations/ YouTube: https://youtu.be/xEkbSU53zJo
• Do you put too much pressure on yourself? https://www.becalmwithtati.com/stop-putting-pressure-on-yourself/ YouTube: https://youtu.be/9oxhdae1PMY
• How to set boundaries with work: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/work-boundaries/ YouTube: https://youtu.be/zUbJWUoeIYY

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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.

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✨ Learn more about the brand new Calm & Ambitious Resource Vault: https://www.calmlycoping.com/vault

💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message

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Want more?

👩🏽‍💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me

👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping

📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com

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My favorite tools:

🧘🏽‍♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd

✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081

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Say hi on social:

🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/

📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc

💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/

📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc

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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead

Disclaimer

All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

Whether you're creating content for your own business, managing social media for someone else, or building your brand full-time, there's this constant pressure to be "on." To perform. To grow. To beat the algorithm. And when your hard work gets… crickets? Or worse — you get hit with harsh criticism from strangers on the internet? It's enough to make anyone question if it's worth it. In this episode, I'm going to walk you through how to manage your mental health as a content creator — even when you're not getting the results you want, even when you're stuck in the comparison trap, and even when it feels like you're on a constant hamster wheel just trying to keep up.

In this episode, you will learn:

• How to stay resilient when your content isn't performing the way you hoped
• Why comparison, criticism, and algorithm-chasing can sabotage your mental health — and what to do instead
• Practical mindset shifts and boundaries that help you stay grounded and intentional in your content creation journey

Sources:

• https://www.netinfluencer.com/creator-burnout-crisis-research-shows-52-percent-experiencing-burnout-37-percent-consider-leaving-the-industry/
• https://www.thepodcasthost.com/mindset/dealing-with-burnout-as-a-creator/

Crisis Resources:

If you're struggling and need immediate support, please know you don't have to go through this alone. Here are some resources available to you:

• 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988 for 24/7, free, confidential support.
• Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 to connect with a trained counselor.
• Find a Helpline: Search for hotlines worldwide → http://findahelpline.com

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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.

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🎓 Enroll in the Harness Your Emotions Course: https://calmlycoping.com/emotions

💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message

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Want more?

👩🏽‍💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me

👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping

📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com

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My favorite tools:

🧘🏽‍♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd

✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081

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Say hi on social:

🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/

📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc

💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/

📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc

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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead

Disclaimer

All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

If you've ever felt like you should have it all together—but inside, you're exhausted, scattered, or secretly struggling to keep up—this episode is for you. I'm joined by Rebecca Tolbert, a clinical therapist and ADHD coach who brings warmth, wisdom, and lived experience to the conversation around ADHD in high-achieving professionals. We explore how ADHD can show up in subtle, unexpected ways, why it's often overlooked in women, and how learning to work with your brain—rather than against it—can change everything.

In this episode, you will learn:

• The subtle ways ADHD can show up in high-achievers
• How to manage your energy through "sprinter-style" productivity
• The SEMPRE skill set that supports ADHD brains and nervous systems
• Why acceptance and joyful structure are key to sustainable success

Connect with Rebecca:

Download the SEMPRE Pillars: https://rebecca-tolbert.kit.com/1a445b31ce

www.consciousstrides.com

instagram: @rebeccatolbert

LinkedIn: Rebecca Tolbert, LICSW

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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.

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💌 Subscribe to the Calmly Coping Newsletter: https://calmlycoping.com/newsletter

💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message

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Want more?

👩🏽‍💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me

👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping

📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com

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My favorite tools:

🧘🏽‍♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd

✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081

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Say hi on social:

🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/

📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc

💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/

📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc

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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead

Disclaimer

All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

Feeling unmotivated, exhausted, down, and no longer enjoying the things you used to enjoy? Is it depression or is it burnout? So many of the symptoms can overlap, that sometimes it can be hard to tell. In this episode, I'll be sharing how to tell the difference, along with practical tips for how to treat each so you can stop struggling and begin thriving.

In this episode, you will learn:

• The key differences and overlap between depression and burnout
• How to identify what you're actually experiencing
• Actionable strategies to help you recover, depending on which it is

Mentioned in episode:

• Burnout Recovery: How I help my clients go from overwhelmed to calm: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/burnout-recovery/ YouTube: https://youtu.be/c5EIG52A7QQ?si=xMWeSd4rh0_xV-ye
• Feeling unmotivated? This is for you: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/feeling-unmotivated/ YouTube: https://youtu.be/WwDydU0DnVg?si=OJqzb0NrHHjlacC5

Crisis Resources

If you're struggling and need immediate support, please know you don't have to go through this alone. Here are some resources available to you:

United States

• 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988 for 24/7, free, confidential support.
• Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 to connect with a trained counselor.

United Kingdom & Ireland

• Samaritans: Call 116 123 for free, confidential support, available 24/7.

Canada

• 988 Suicide Crisis Helpline: Call or text 988 for immediate nationwide support.
• Talk Suicide Canada: Call 1-833-456-4566 or text 45645.

Australia

• Lifeline Australia: Call 13 11 14 for 24/7 support.

International

• Find a Helpline: Search for hotlines worldwide → http://findahelpline.com

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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.

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🎓 Free 3-day Course: How To Calm Your Mind So You Can Finally Relax: https://calmlycoping.com/relax

💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message

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Want more?

👩🏽‍💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me

👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping

📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com

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My favorite tools:

🧘🏽‍♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd

✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081

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Say hi on social:

🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/

📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc

💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/

📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc

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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead

Disclaimer

All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

If you're feeling unmotivated, then this is for you, especially if you're feeling unmotivated because of overwhelm. Many times we can reach a point of lacking motivation or desire to do anything because there is so much on our plate, so much on our minds, and so much going on all around us. So in this episode, I'm going to share why that happens and practical steps for what you can do about it.

In this episode, you will learn:

• Why overwhelm, not laziness, is often the real cause of lost motivation
• My 5-step reset to help you move from mental fog to clear, focused action
• How to meet yourself with compassion instead of pressure when your energy is low

Mentioned in episode:

• How to Get Organized with High-Functioning Anxiety: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/organizing-with-high-functioning-anxiety/ YouTube: https://youtu.be/DlEYrWdOVmo
• Do You Have Unrealistic Expectations? Here's What To Do: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/unrealistic-expectations/ YouTube: https://youtu.be/xEkbSU53zJo
• Feeling Unmotivated? This is for you: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/feeling-unmotivated/ YouTube: https://youtu.be/WwDydU0DnVg

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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.

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📝 Download the free guide: Goodbye Overwhelm: Your Guide To Accomplish More By Doing Less: http://calmlycoping.com/overwhelm

💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message

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Want more?

👩🏽‍💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me

👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping

📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com

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My favorite tools:

🧘🏽‍♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd

✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081

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Say hi on social:

🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/

📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc

💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/

📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc

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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead

Disclaimer

All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

Are you feeling exhausted, burnt-out, and done with your job… but leaving doesn't feel like an option right now? Maybe you feel trapped financially, fear the consequences of leaving, don't see any other options, or don't even know what you want to do next… If so, know that you're not alone. I have worked with many clients in this exact situation, and in this episode I'll dive deeper into the reasons why you're feeling trapped, along with practical tips to find a way towards more calm, energy, and freedom.

In this episode, you will learn:

• Why staying in a draining job can feel like the only option, even when it's harming your mental health.
• The deeper emotional and psychological reasons behind feeling stuck
• Practical, compassionate steps you can take right now to protect your energy and reconnect with a sense of possibility.

Mentioned in episode:

• Escape Survival Mode and Heal Your Nervous System: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/heal-nervous-system/ YouTube: https://youtu.be/YDtmmN942Fg
• How to Really Disconnect from Work: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/disconnect-from-work/ YouTube: https://youtu.be/ZfA2nKTTxKg
• Evening Routine to Calm Your Mind and Disconnect from Work: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/evening-routine/ YouTube: https://youtu.be/V0euexQIjx4
• How to Set Boundaries With Work (Without Feeling Guilty): https://www.becalmwithtati.com/work-boundaries/ YouTube: https://youtu.be/zUbJWUoeIYY

Sources:

• The Workplace Dynamic of People-Pleasing: https://www.mdpi.com/2673-8392/5/3/95
• The Job Demands–Resources model: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Job_demands-resources_model

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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.

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🎓 Learn more about Calm, Balanced, & Confident: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/calm-balanced-confident/

💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message

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Want more?

👩🏽‍💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me

👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping

📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com

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My favorite tools:

🧘🏽‍♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd

✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081

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Say hi on social:

🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/

📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc

💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/

📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc

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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead

Disclaimer

All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

If you've ever felt like you can't relax until you've earned it, or like your worth depends on your bank balance, this episode is for you. In this episode I'm joined by Lindsay Bryan-Podvin, a financial therapist and author who helps people heal their relationship with money through a shame-free, psychology-informed lens. We're diving into how financial anxiety impacts high achievers—and what it really takes to feel calm, confident, and enough.

In this episode, you will learn:

• How financial anxiety often hides behind productivity and burnout
• Small mindset shifts to help you feel calmer and more confident with your finances
• How perfectionism impacts your money beliefs, and what to do about it

Connect with Lindsay:

• Lindsay's Free Quiz: https://www.mindmoneybalance.com/quiz
• Lindsay's Website: https://www.mindmoneybalance.com/
• Lindsay on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mindmoneybalance/
• Lindsay on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MindMoneyBalance/videos
• Lindsay's Book: The Financial Anxiety Solution

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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.

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💌 Subscribe to the Calmly Coping Newsletter: https://calmlycoping.com/newsletter

💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message

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Want more?

👩🏽‍💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me

👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping

📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com

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My favorite tools:

🧘🏽‍♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd

✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081

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Say hi on social:

🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/

📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc

💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/

📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc

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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead

Disclaimer

All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

*Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.