Been There Got Out Podcast

Can a High-Conflict Divorce be Settled in Mediation? (Spoiler Alert: YES!)


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It's one thing to navigate the choppy waters of divorce, but quite another to emerge with familial bonds intact. In a heart-to-heart with seasoned mediator and CUNY Law professor Joy Rosenthal, we peel back the layers of family law mediation, uncovering the delicate art of maintaining connections in the wake of separation. Our conversation is a deep dive into the dynamics of difficult personalities and the pivotal role mediators play in ensuring safety and balance, particularly in the ominous shadow of domestic violence.

As Joy eloquently shares her background in legal work with children and teens, we're reminded of the profound impact parental relationships have on the younger generation post-divorce. Our dialogue turns to the empowerment that direct negotiation can bring to individuals in the mediation process. Our own mediation experiences in New York serve as a backdrop to this discussion, as we explore the nuances of safety planning and techniques that equip parties to focus on the future, offering a fresh perspective on steering the conversation toward resolutions that protect everyone involved.

We close the episode with an intimate recount of an eight-year legal standoff over an estate, where the emotional toll and the importance of self-advocacy come to the fore. The story not only highlights the stark contrasts between commercial and family mediation but also serves as a sobering reminder of the necessity to craft a process that's fair and considerate of all parties. Throughout, this episode isn't just a guidebook for mediators or those entangled in family disputes; it's a testament to the resilience of family ties and the power of empathy in the face of conflict.

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