How do you handle difficult situations? Are you ready to find out how to navigate challenges and create lasting connections? In this week's episode of Charisma Quotient, Kimmy dives deep into the transformative power of overcoming adversity in love with her interview with special guests, James Arthur Ray and Bersabeh Ray, who have each overcome significant challenges in their lives and are here to share their insights and strategies with you.

This episode is all about embracing the obstacles we face and using them as stepping stones towards personal growth and attracting the love we truly deserve.  James Arthur Ray is not only a bestselling author, consultant, and coach, but he's also someone who has experienced loss and rebuilt his life from scratch. After a tragic accident, James had to dig deep and use his own strategies to bounce back stronger than ever.  Bersabeh Ray, an intuitive consultant, was born in Iran during the Iran-Iraq war. She has faced great adversity and has provided invaluable support to James during his journey of rebuilding. Together, they have invaluable wisdom to share on how to navigate challenges in love and life.

EPISODE 313 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Embracing Adversity and Attracting Love with James Arthur Ray and Bersabeh

Prepare to be moved by James and Bersabeh's personal journeys of loss, rebuilding, and finding love amidst hardship.  As they share their own experiences of overcoming seemingly insurmountable obstacles, you'll be inspired to face your own challenges head-on and harness the power within you to create a life filled with love and authenticity.

Ready to overcome adversity and attract the love you deserve? Reach out to Kimmy Seltzer for personalized coaching and revolutionize your approach to relationships and personal growth by booking here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call to map out a strategy to help you.

EPISODE 313 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Embracing Adversity and Attracting Love with James Arthur Ray and Bersabeh Ray. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Ready to redefine your style and reignite your dating confidence after 40? Join the "First Impression Makeover" workshop with Kimmy Seltzer at https://stophatingdating.com and embrace your vibrant, magnetic self!

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Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now. Listen in to hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working together. You'll hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success, and their biggest shifts since working with Kimmy. We share these conversations to motivate you to take action and get inspired by the successes of others. Are you ready to break free from the chains of self-sabotage and reach new heights in your love life? Our guest, Kim, shares her powerful story of realizing the need for guidance as she embarked on a new path in her life. She opens up about her previous experiences of rushing into relationships without truly getting to know the other person, and how this realization led her to seek support in her journey. Together, we explore the importance of investing in oneself and the positive outcomes that stem from personal growth and development. Kim reflects on her transformation of confidence, setting boundaries, and attracting healthier partners. As we delve into the topic of self-validation and the role it plays in relationships, we discuss the significance of recognizing internal validation and not relying solely on external sources for validation. We also touch upon the impact of family dynamics and past experiences on our present actions and beliefs. Listen in as Kim shares the exercises and skills that have helped her break old patterns and create a new, more fulfilling dating experience. We also discuss the profound moments of intimacy and authenticity that can truly transform our relationships and bring vibrant colors to our lives. Are you tired of those old dating patterns and are ready to find your confidence and authenticity in the modern dating world? Reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call to map out a strategy to help you. Make sure to tune in to Episode 312 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast titled "Internal Validation & Finding Love: Where Are They Now with Kim."  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you ready to break free from the chains of self-sabotage and reach new heights in your love life? 

In this captivating episode of The Charisma Quotient Podcast, we dive deep into the world of personal discovery with the incredible Paul Hoffman. 

Strap in for an eye-opening conversation that will transform how you view yourself and your relationships.

Our guest, Paul Hoffman, is a personal discovery architect who has helped countless individuals identify and overcome the mind traps that have been holding them back. With a remarkable background that includes sharing stages with the likes of Jack Canfield and the Dalai Lama, Paul brings a wealth of expertise to our topic.

EPISODE 311 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Unlock Your Potential: Overcoming Self-Sabotage with Paul Hoffman

Join host Kimmy Seltzer as she delves into the secrets behind self-sabotage and how it impacts our ability to find love and happiness. From childhood messages to coping mechanisms, they explore the roots of self-sabotage and its effect on personal growth. 

One standout moment includes a powerful story from a dating retreat where a woman's rough exterior melted away, leading to newfound personal growth and romantic attention.

Feeling inspired? Take action today by reaching out to Kimmy Seltzer for coaching on how to break free from self-sabotage and shape a love life that truly aligns with your desires. 

Reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call to map out a strategy to help you.

EPISODE 311 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Unlock Your Potential: Overcoming Self-Sabotage with Paul Hoffman. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Did you know that there’s science behind falling in love?  Love is fascinating and complex. Romantic love, in particular, seems to be a beautiful mystery that is hard to explain. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with best selling authors and love coaches Dr. Michael and Barbara Grossman, Ph.D. Barbara is a marriage and family therapist, and Michael specializes in regenerative medicine. After overcoming struggles in their marriage, this couple teaches other couples the skills they need to have happy, healthy, and loving marriages for life. 

EPISODE 310 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Sexy Science Of Falling In Love: Interview with Drs. Michael and Barbara Grossman   Dr. Michael and Dr. Barbara talk about how they got into this work, and share the challenges they experienced ten years into their marriage that almost led to a divorce. These two break down some key differences between men’s and women’s communication styles that can spark frustration in relationships. Listen in to hear how Dr. Barbara and Dr. Michael each had to grow personally to keep their relationship strong. Kimmy asks Dr. Michael to share his framework for the stages of growth we go through, and how it relates to our ability to form strong relationships and families in the future.  If you are a high achiever who has trouble feeling connected to your emotions, this conversation is for you. You can learn the skills to develop happy, healthy relationships at any stage in life. You get the make the choice to move forward for the better.

If you are wanting to learn how to attract a relationship and sustain it, then reach out to Kimmy here for a complimentary private call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Work with Kimmy to map out a plan to begin your journey to find love. 

EPISODE 310 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Sexy Science Of Falling In Love: Interview with Drs. Michael and Barbara Grossman.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Is it possible to manifest the perfect partner out of thin air? If you set an intention to attract something or someone into your life, you have to deeply believe you are deserving of everything you say you desire.  This week, Kimmy has an enlightening conversation with Laura Michelle Powers, a celebrity psychic, author of seven books, actress, and host of the Healing Powers podcast. These two talk all about how to consciously manifest what you want in love, instead of feeling completely out of control.   EPISODE 309 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Manifesting Love:  Interview With Laura Michelle Powers   Kimmy asks Laura to share the story of how she went from experiencing childhood trauma to a toxic marriage to the incredible life she’s manifested today after using her psychic abilities and re-discovering her intuition.  Kimmy and Laura talk about how the power of fear blocks you from moving forward.  Listen in on an important discussion of how understanding the difference between masculine and feminine energy plays a role in manifesting love.  Laura shares a story about someone she met on a dating app who misrepresented themselves online. Listen in to hear how Laura tackled that issue in future online dating interactions. Stay tuned to hear about the power of positive thinking, laughter and being more in tune with how you feel. If you approach a date with a serious attitude or stress from the workday, you might shut yourself down from connecting with that other person.   If you’re ready to manifest a beautiful, loving relationship in your life, reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call to map out a strategy to help you.   EPISODE 309 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Manifesting Love:  Interview With Laura Michelle Powers. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you ever feel like you’re in a trance when it comes to dating? Are you present in your conversations or are you trapped inside your own head and missing out on what’s right in front of you?  This week, Kimmy does a deep dive on the signs that you are emotionally disconnected and her top tips to be a mindful dater. Mindful dating is the process of becoming more aware and being more intentional on dates. That includes your own self-awareness of course, but also being present to connect with the person across from you.   EPISODE 308 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mindful Dating: Finding Meaning in Every Interaction   Kimmy kicks off with a story about her VIP client who finally recognized how disconnected she’s been for nearly a decade since her marriage ended. She was going through the motions without recognizing how her own emotions, behaviors and values impacted her ability to make genuine connections with others.  Kimmy clearly outlines some top tips in how to date mindfully so that you approach dating with intention, authenticity, and a focus on meaningful connections. Kimmy shares a surprising tip about the early signs that indicate future relationship success. And, stay tuned to hear why dating outside of your type or dating multiple people can help you hone in on what you truly want in a partner.  If you’re feeling burned out by dating, chances are you’re not approaching it in a mindful way. Kimmy breaks down how to structure your time intentionally around dating so it doesn’t become a burden. Numbing out can be a sign that you’re self-sabotaging potential relationships in order to avoid the pain of rejection.  Listen in to hear about the value of approaching life with curiosity when opening your self up to love.    If you are numbing out and not being intentional or mindful when dating, hop on a private call with Kimmy so that she can wake you up and put you into a dating action plan. Click here to book it https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough   EPISODE 308 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mindful Dating: Finding Meaning in Every Interaction. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Has the fear of rejection stopped you from embracing all of the possibilities life has to offer? If you want to find love, but you’re terrified to put yourself out there this episode will show you that it’s possible to make a change. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with William Hung, a motivational singer and former singer who became a household name after he was sent home on American Idol, auditioning with “She Bangs” by Ricky Martin. These two have a candid, vulnerable conversation about turning rejection into resilience and learning to honor your authentic self.   EPISODE 307 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: American Idol William Hung Interview: Regaining Confidence After Rejection   Kimmy asks William to talk about how he rebuilt his confidence after experiencing public rejection and maintained his signature positive outlook. William talks about his focus on his values and purpose as a way to reset when the fear of failure sets in.  William opens up and shares stories about his first two marriages and the lessons he learned that stick with him to this day. He speaks vulnerably about the challenges he faced with gambling and addiction and how that impacted his relationships. You’ll hear all about how William’s experience on American Idol catapulted him into a new world and how he navigated that time, emerging on the other side wiser, and more confident.  Stay tuned to hear key advice from Kimmy about the importance of cultivating your confidence to remain resilient when confronted with anxiety about an uncertain future.  This conversation is a reminder that being your authentic self above all is the best way to make a real, meaningful connection with someone.    If you are ready to get over your fear of rejection and put yourself back out there to find love, reach out to Kimmy for a free coaching call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣.   Work with Kimmy to map out a plan to find your sexy self-confidence and feel like the best version of yourself.   EPISODE 307 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: American Idol William Hung Interview: Regaining Confidence After Rejection. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

How do you lead with your authentic voice? In your journey to find love, are you being true to who you are or are you shape-shifting into someone you’re not?  If you are terrified to flirt, approach someone you’ve never met before, or don’t feel confident showing up as your true self, this conversation is for you. This week, Kimmy has an enlightening conversation with Hersh Rephun, who is a brand voice expert and the host of the Yes, BRAND Podcast, with a background in comedy and entertainment. He helps people find their authentic brand voice to communicate with their audience in an honest way.   EPISODE 306 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Your Authentic Brand Voice:  Interview With Hersh Rephun   Kimmy and Hersh Rephun talk about the perils of “shape-shifting”, where you prioritize pleasing others over being authentic to who you truly are.  Kimmy asks Hersh to share his story of how he transitioned from the world of stand-up comedy to being a brand strategist today. Hersh shares how difficult it was to transition from playing characters on stage to speaking honestly in his own voice. Stay tuned to hear some of Hersh’s signature voices from his comedy days!  Kimmy and Hersh discuss how improvisational games and leaning into being silly and playful can help you discover the confidence you didn’t know you had within you.  Kimmy asks Hersh to share tips about common misconceptions about how to express your authentic voice. You’ll hear examples from Hersh’s work with major brands and how that translates to communicating who you are personally.  Kimmy and Hersh break down how humor can be an incredible connector, but it can also cause distance between you and another person — or you and yourself.  Hersh and Kimmy have a fascinating conversation about how to flip that script and use your challenges to showcase your power.   If you are ready to develop your brand voice and start showing up authentically, get in touch with Kimmy here for a free call https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In just one session you could begin to map out a strategic dating plan alongside Kimmy to express yourself authentically and find love.   EPISODE 306 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Your Authentic Brand Voice:  Interview With Hersh Rephun.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

How do you walk into a room and stand out from the crowd? Charisma is a skill that can be learned and this episode will show you how to up your dating game.  This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Christine Amerman an experienced media coach and strategist who helps people share their expertise in the podcasting space. These two have a vulnerable conversation about how to show up as your authentic self and shine!   EPISODE 305 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Stand Out To Attract Love:  Interview With Christine Amerman   Christine shares the story of how she found herself again her way following a personal loss. Kimmy asks Christine to talk about how she redefined her self identity and found purpose in her new reality. You’ll hear about how Christine pushed herself to accept her desire to be seen in many areas of her life.  Kimmy and Christine talk about the importance of being playful and approaching life with a childlike wonder. If you bring a flirtatious attitude to your dating life, you’ll become open to new connections and new possibilities. If you have struggled with fears of rejection from past wounds, this conversation is for you. You’ll hear an actionable tip on how to boost your confidence, even when you’re feeling insecure.  Find out why you don’t have to be a hyper-extrovert in order to stand out and key character traits to foster to overcome insecurities.  Listen in to hear how you can use these qualities to attract a higher caliber of people.   If you are someone who hides and want to attract more opportunities in your dating and social life by standing out with charisma and confidence, hop on a call with Kimmy to strategize mapping out a plan to that here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a free call!    EPISODE 305 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Stand Out To Attract Love:  Interview With Christine Amerman.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you an over-thinker and a little analytical in nature?  The last time you were on a date, did you feel present and playful or distant and disconnected?  Overthinking, difficulty expressing emotions, and an outcome-oriented mindset are just a few of the challenges that left-brained analytical thinkers encounter when it comes to matters of the heart. In this episode of Coaching With Kimmy, you’ll hear honest conversations with Kimmy and real people about their progress on their dating journey.  This week on the show, Kimmy has a candid conversation with Jeff who refers to himself as “Data” (Trekkies will get this reference!). Jeff describes himself as an introvert with a highly technical and military background, who has struggled to make emotional connections with women after two divorces.  If you have a tendency to overthink, resist expressing your emotions, or are outcome-oriented, this conversation is for you.    EPISODE 304 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Challenges Of Analytical Thinkers:  Coaching With Kimmy    When you bring this energy to a date, it can result in your date not feeling the chemistry and you finding yourself in the friend zone.  Kimmy begins this episode in reviewing specific mistakes left-brained people often make when dating and how to overcome them.  You'll then hear Jeff talk about how his confidence lives in his professional life and how it doesn't always translate into his personal life. Jeff shares that many of his dates end up feeling like a business interview, and wants to understand how to get to the fun part where he can relax, share his sense of humor and banter back and forth.  Kimmy and Jeff identify the importance of creating a sense of safety in conversation. Jeff vulnerably shares that wounds from his past relationships have impacted his ability to make new connections when dating. Kimmy talks about the impact of experiencing rejection over time and how that can build fear about an uncertain future.  Stay tuned to hear actionable tips from Kimmy about how to chip away at the fear you feel around dating.  Kimmy shares key steps towards building emotional connections connections and instilling a mindset that will reduce fears of rejection. Listen in to hear about how to gamify social interactions so meeting new people can feel fun, light and not burdened by a potential future outcome.   If you are analytical, in your head and an overthinker which all is affecting your dating life, reach out to Kimmy here for a FREE consultation: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In just 30 minutes, you can work with Kimmy to map out a plan to find a fulfilling relationship with who loves and understands your unique self.    EPISODE 304 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Challenges Of Analytical Thinkers:  Coaching With Kimmy.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers