Have you ever been told you're too picky when it comes to dating? Do you fear feeling that you're settling? How do you know if having high standards is helping you, or hurting you? This week on Coaching with Kim, you'll hear from Gwen, who's having trouble trusting her instincts in relationships. Gwen is willing to take smart risks when it comes to her career, but that doesn't translate to her love life. Gwen shares that her dad says she's too picky, and Kim probes for how that makes Gwen feel about the guys she chooses or not. This conversation is honest, open and reflective. Feeling secure and confident in your decisions, especially when you haven't had a lot of experience meeting people you connect with, is difficult for everyone - there's a learning curve! Getting really clear on what you want in a relationship doesn't just happen, it takes time and experience to build a clear vision. Kim encourages Gwen to acknowledge her accomplishments both personally and professionally and be open to dating for fun! When you take action, at first, it can be uncomfortable and anxiety-inducing, but the more you experience, the more you will grow and learn what you like, what you want and ultimately, who you are. If you are looking to take a step in the right direction to build your self-confidence, join Kim's private Facebook group for women looking to transform their love lives from the outside in, join Love Makeover Insiders here: https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL