Decoded | Unlock The Secrets of Human Behavior, Emotion and Motivation

Communication Without the Fight


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Most of you think fights start with words. Wrong. Words rank dead last. Long before you open your mouth, people are reacting to your eyebrows, body language, assumptions, and projections—and that’s why your communication keeps blowing up in your face.

In this episode of Decoded, Bizzie Gold rips apart the myth that “good communication” is about what you say. You’ll learn the inverse hierarchy of information processing (why people trust their trauma over your words), how to stop throwing conversational “footballs” no one can catch, and why clinging to fairness guarantees you’ll stay stuck in conflict.

If you’re ready to stop being misheard, misquoted, and manipulated, this is your manual. It’s not about talking more—it’s about rewiring the way you aim, throw, and land every message.



What you’ll learn:

  • Why assumptions outrank words every time

  • How to stop communication from getting distorted

  • The pre-conversation script that cuts conflict in half

    • Five facets of Communication

    When to walk away, when to set the boundary, and when to expedite the truth

    Break Method is a disruptive emotional rewiring system that uses data and predictive analytics to expose self-deception and permanently rewire destructive patterns. With 98.3% accuracy in forecasting behavior, it delivers fast, sustainable change without the years of looping talk therapy.


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