Are you feeling like ALL of your first dates are boring? Does it feel like pulling teeth just to get the conversation going? This week on the show, Kimmy tackles how to take control of your first-date conversations all while creating chemistry. In this episode, you'll hear Kimmy's live coaching call with Kay, who's been having a series of boring first dates with no attraction factor. EPISODE 159 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy Kay jumps in and describes her desire to find a man who shares her love of bluegrass music, art, and karaoke, but admits she's having trouble finding common ground with the men she's meeting. Kimmy and Kay discuss Kay's tendency to wait for guys to show her what they have to offer before she's willing to open up and share what she feels. Kimmy talks about how the essence of flirting is crucial when it comes to creating chemistry in conversation. When you let go of the pressure of pleasing your date and start to focus on making sure YOU have a good time, you'll start to loosen up! If you've found yourself avoiding sharing your feelings on dates, Kimmy lays out some helpful tips on how to shift your conversation from describing facts to recalling warm memories so your date can feel you on a deeper level. And, if you haven't considered what your body language is signaling to your dates, listen up! Kimmy talks through how you may be physically telling men you're not interested, even if you haven't expressed that out loud. Kimmy gives some hands-on, practical advice on how to overcome boring connections and gives Kay ideas of how she can put it into practice. If you are having trouble connecting on first dates and finding hard to create chemistry by flirting, sign up for a complimentary Flirt Booster session with Kimmy where she will diagnose specific challenges you are having in your conversations and on dates and shed some light around you can skip shallow small talk and have deeper connections overall https://bvjh4x6h.pages.infusionsoft.net/. And to start putting yourself into action, sign up for Kimmy's new 5-Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge. It starts Sept 28-Oct 2 and it's FREE! https://28xztw45.pages.infusionsoft.net/. Flirting, dating, and connecting should be fun! Don't let any more boring first-dates bring down your light and energy! EPISODE 159 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers