How much do you rely on physical or sexual chemistry to create connections with dates? If you answered, "All the time!" then this episode is for you. This week, Kimmy live coaches Maggie, a vibrant woman who's ready to get back into the dating scene to find an intelligent, attractive man. The problem is, she just isn't physically attracted to the guys she's meeting.    EPISODE 193 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Cultivating Chemistry On Dates:  Coaching With Kimmy   Kimmy asks Maggie to jump in and tell her story. Maggie reflects on how the loss of her husband and her relationship dynamic with her father have impacted her perception of what she deserves. After decades of prioritizing and caring for her family above herself, Maggie recognizes now that she's in a new stage in her life where it's possible to put herself first for the first time. If you consider yourself a people pleaser like Maggie, you may find that it's easier to take care of others instead of yourself.  But now, Maggie is having a hard time knowing the steps she can take to allow herself to be in receiving mode. This conversation illuminates how self-reflection relates to the first step to breaking a pattern…even when it comes to attraction! Often the issue that rises to the surface like not having chemistry with your dates, is actually more deeply rooted in something that only you can change.  Listen in to find out the surprising reasons why Maggie isn’t finding anyone attractive and preventing her from finding someone new.  Kimmy reveals actionable tips for Maggie so that she can slow down, be in receiving mode and open herself up for love again. Chemistry is more than just sexual attraction!    To find out more about Kimmy's three essential ingredients to creating strong, lasting chemistry... sign up for a breakthrough call with Kimmy right here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Just like Maggie, you can begin your journey to crack your code and find out what's blocking you from finding the love you want. You can also get started right now by signing up to be on the priority list for Kimmy's first coed Masterclass on creating chemistry for both men and women on May 17th! Sign up here and you'll be first in line to secure your spot! https://azxwnn2c.pages.infusionsoft.net/     EPISODE 193 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Cultivating Chemistry On Dates:  Coaching With Kimmy.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter:  https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook:  https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers