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One of the biggest reasons why women don’t create yummy love lives for themselves is because they are afraid of what people will think of them if they do. 

They fear people will judge them for kissing men on the first date

They fear people won’t approve of them dating multiple men

They fear being labeled “difficult” if they bluntly asked for what they wanted for men and said “NO” to all the things they don’t want. 

Winnie was one of these many women who had a dry and scarce love life because she feared what people of her culture and religion would think. She played small for years, accepted crumbs from me and waited for them to choose her for years. 

That all changed when she decided to choose herSELF first instead of pleasing everyone else as the neighborhood “good girl”. 

Join me for today’s episode as Winnie (former client and C2C Success Coach) tells all about how she dropped the “good girl” act to go from a dry and disastrous love life to dating deliciously with multiple yummy men.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• How Winnie created a blissful, exciting and spicy love life even when friends and family of her culture & religion didn’t approve. 

• Winnie’s journey from a dry dating life to attracting high-quality men who love her for the women she is. 

• How Winnie learned to confidently ask for what she wanted from men without fear or guilt. 

• The backstory of how Winnie learned how to date multiple men after being nervous that people would see her as a “HOE”

• Why Winnie walked away from the pressures of being “Good Girl” to live an authentic life of freedom on her own terms.

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• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at www.curved2cuffed.com/apply

• My Daily Clubhouse Room

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Imagine pushing 30, never been on a date, never even kissed a guy before..

Annnddd…you’ve been waiting on God to send your husband, but he’s nowhere in sight.

That was Marshae when we first met in 2017. 

A beautiful, outgoing high-achieving woman of faith who desired marriage, but was lost when it came to dating and interacting with me because all her life she  was taught to “wait on God” and the man would just appear. 

Until she met me of course. 

Join me for today’s episode as Marshae shares her journey of how she went from never dating at all..to being engaged and married in the same year. 

After 4 years of marriage and 2 babies later, she’s dropping gems on how she created an amazing love life before and after marriage.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• How Marshae went from being ashamed of desiring marriage to being confident about pursuing a healthy and exciting love life. 

• What happened when  Marshae finally got the courage to shoot her shot at a long-time crush. 

• The backstory behind how Marshae dated her husband and vetted him for exclusivity.

• How putting YOU first leads to a better experience whether you’re single or married. 

• How working with Marshae inspired me to become a dating coach.

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• Lovergirl Weekend Retreat Details - Early Bird Investment Pricing ends December 31st. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at www.curved2cuffed.com/apply . 

• My Daily Clubhouse Room. 

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We live in a time where women have more choices than ever before. 

We can buy our own property…we can go to school for whatever…we can choose our own careers, we can play professional sports. 

We can even go to war if we want to. 

And  even with all of these modern freedoms…we still have societal chains that keep us in bondage…

…that keeps us from TRULY being who we want to be and DOING what we want to do. 

And this directly impacts our ability to have deep, authentic dating experiences and abundant, expansive love lives. 

In today’s episode, I expose how Women of Faith have allowed the “Good Girl Complex” to keep them small in their love lives. We are trading our personal freedom to be slaves to our comfort zone and for people pleasing and male approval.  And it’s destroying the way we live and love because of fear and shame. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• What it means to “fall in love” and why you should be doing it as often as possible while dating. 

• How Caresha (Young Miami) chose her own romantic path, but is still triggered by it.  

• The real reason why “good girls” police other women’s life choices concerning her body, sex and dating practices. 

• The truth of how following male relationship gurus really condition you to stay under male domination and control.

• Why men will praise you for being “wife material”, but never try to make you their wife. 

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• Lovergirl Weekend Retreat Details - Early Bird Investment Pricing ends December 31st. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/apply

• My Daily Clubhouse Room.

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

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Ever shot your shot with someone and scored big time??

I feel this way about snagging Crystal Irom who is another dope ass love coach and a really good friend of mine. 

Almost 2 years ago, I slid in her DMs during the pandemic and since then we’ve grown a beautiful friendship that is filled with so much love, joy and a lot of respect for one another. 

Not only do I love her…but many of my clients do too. 

She’s my guest today on the podcast and we’re giving you a sneak peak of what we discuss when we have our regular girl chats. 

In today’s episode, be prepared to be a fly on the wall as we girl talk, share, and giggle about our backstories, personal lives, love coaching businesses, trending topics, pop culture and other random talking points. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• The unusual way we met on Clubhouse and how I mistakenly thought she was a white woman for weeks. 

• Both our takes on why so many  women are attracting emotionally unavailable men. 

• My real time reaction of Derek Jaxn’s divorce announcement after Crystal drop the news mid-conversation. 

• The anxiety I had over sending the wrong email to over 800 people and how it backfired in my favor. 

• Why Crystal has the super power to be able to crank out 40+ Youtube videos in a single weekend.  

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• My Daily Clubhouse Room. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/apply

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Women of faith are being gaslit by mainstream religion. 

They deeply desire love, sex and marriage…but are often programmed to bury these desires to appear “godly” and not “desperate”

They are single and unsatisfied in their 30s, 40s and 50s…but being told to “commit to The Lord” more and the right man will find them. 

They are being taught to keep their legs closed…but not receiving any practical guidance on how to meet men and date them for marriage. 

The good news is that this era is slowly ending. 

There’s an awakening happening…and there’s a new movement being led by women of faith who are leaving behind the shackles of “religious relationship theology” and finding freedom by finally taking responsibility for their love lives. 

In today’s episode, I go in depth about how mainstream religion has set women of faith up to lose with love. I also share how the average “church girl” can begin creating a new reality where love is abundant, quality men are plentiful and dating is a fulfilling adventure. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• 3 Most Common (but wrong) strategies women of faith use to attract quality men

• The uncomfortable truth behind the phrase “HOES Winning” that many church girls don’t want to accept. 

• Why leaving your “church” might be the best thing for your love life in 2023

• How black women are the biggest casualty of religious relationship theology. 

• Real clients sharing real stories of what happened when they stopped waiting for love to happen for them. 

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• My Daily Clubhouse Room. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/apply

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

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One of the biggest fears women have while dating is “Falling in Love” with a man. 

So they act unbothered…they suppress their emotions and worst of all…ignore their desires. 

And although they are successful at not “falling in love”...they are also successful at damaging their love life. 

They have no idea that trying to avoid falling in love is also preventing them from ALSO having fun, fruitful and forward-moving dating experiences with men. 

In today’s episode, share why women SHOULD fall in love while dating…and they should fall in love all the time…with different men. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: 

• What it means to “fall in love” and why you should be doing it as often as possible while dating. 

• The truth behind why so many women are terrified of falling in love while dating. 

• How being scared of “falling in love” is causing you to attract men who are emotionally unavailable 

• The key to falling in love without being emotionally attached to the men you’re dating. 

• The secret to falling in love with men without overinvesting

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• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/apply

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For every time I urge women to have fun while dating..

…there is always someone who is ready to reply “But Torah! I’m intentional. I’m dating with purpose.” 

What I find so fascinating is so many women believe they have to choose between pleasure and purpose. 

Newsflash!

You can have experience BOTH while dating Queen...at the same time

You don’t have to sacrifice fun to be intentional about dating the men you desire. 

In today’s episode, I reveal the problem with sacrificing pleasure and how you can have a yummy, delicious time with men while still being very purposeful towards a committed relationship. 

Here’s what you’ll discover: 

• How vetting someone to see if they are husband material is not dating with intention. 

• Why dating “with purpose” can be one of the biggest distractions to your own healing

• How to begin infusing joy and pleasure in all your dating experiences. 

• What it looks like to have fun while dating and then being smart about it.

• How to take your desires and fuel what you want to create in your love life.

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• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

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One of our favorite Celebrity couples is calling it quits after 14 years of marriage. 

And a lot of us are struggling with the news. 

We’re asking questions like: 

“If they didn’t make it…what hope is there for me?”

Or 

“I thought they were so happy…how could they divorce?”

What if I told you that both of these questions are flawed and based in falsehood?

What if I also told you that you don’t have to be disappointed and doubtful because their marriage didn’t last. 

In today’s episode, I share my perspective on the divorce, what you can learn from their marriage ending, and where to move your attention if you desire a beautiful, loving marriage. 

Here’s what you’ll discover: 

• How focusing on making a marriage last is overrated (and what you should focus on instead). 

• Why paying so much attention to Tia & Cory’s divorce is a distraction from what really matters. 

• The truth behind the 30+ year marriages our grandparents had. 

• How the average person self-abandons all in the name of marriage. 

• How celebrities' marriages ending, have nothing to do with your opportunity for a healthy, long-standing marriage. 

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• My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

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One of the biggest fears we have as women, while dating, is getting rejected by a man we really like. 

And some of the most painful rejection is getting ghosted by a man that we really could really see ourselves building a life with. 

Shruti was one of many women who became devastated after her dream man ghosted her out of nowhere. He was attractive, checked off all the boxes, and she felt a strong connection with him…and she was crushed that he would disappear from her life with no explanation. 

That all changed when she decided to choose herSELF before choosing a man. 

Join me for today’s episode as Shruti (Cuff-link from August 2022 Cohort) gives you a behind the scenes look at how she went from being desperate for marriage, depressed and crying over a man who ghosted her to becoming a fierce Queen who boldly asks for what she wants, lives how she wants, and dates WHO she wants. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• How Shruti went from being adamant about dating one man at a time to dating multiple high-quality men who provide, protect and pursue her for marriage. 

• The backstory behind how Shruti was able to quadruple her income and her options in men. 

• How Shruti was able to recreate herself and design her dream love life despite having tons of insecurities about herself as a woman. 

• The importance of embracing and loving past, painful versions of you who didn’t know any better.

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• EP #18: Plus-sized Dating with Rashanda Banks

• My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

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