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“How come it’s the ones who engage engage in premarital sex that are getting married and yet we who have been sticking to our principles, trying to do things God’s way and praying for years are still waiting (and getting older by the day?)”

I’m always seeing variations of this question in online communities where women of faith reside. 

What these women don’t realize is that beneath the surface of this question there is entitlement, false superiority and a 2misinterpretation of what it means to be celibate. 

I hopped on the mic to rant about this question and to give some perspective on what the Bible really reveals to us when it comes to love, sex and marriage. 

Here’s what you’ll discover: 

• The truth about why “good girls” who keep their legs closed aren’t getting married

• How “Biblical Marriage” is highly overrated and why no woman truly wants it. 

• The danger of fantasizing the Bible and romanticizing marriage

• Why women of faith need to stop waiting for their “Boaz”

• What it looks like to choose to abstain from sex from a position of power

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• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

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Most women are dating in scarcity mode. 

They are constantly drained, disappointed and finding it damn near impossible to meet attractive, high-quality men that they’re excited about.

There are a few women who have cracked the code and learned to date in abundance mode. 

These women have no problem designing the love life they want and attracting the men they most desire. 

Safiyyah happens to be one of these women and she’s here to share what it looks like to have an abundant love life with an overflow of quality men, fun dates and enjoyable experiences. 

Join me for today’s episode as Safiyyah (Cuff-link from March 2022 Cohort) shares her personal journey of going from being stressed out with dating to creating a successful love life.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• How Safiyyah overcame her anger with men and dating so that she could finally enjoy her love life.

• A personal behind the scenes look of how Safiyyah built her confidence to ask for what she wants…instead of settling for what she thought she could get. 

• The simple, practical ways to create an abundance of love and high-quality men in your life. 

• Real, inspiring stories of how quality men invest in Safiyyah and show up to fulfill the desires of her heart.

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• EP #24: When Dating Multiple Men Feels Like Fantasy

• My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

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If you think it’s hard to find one quality man, let alone multiple quality men to date….

If you are struggling cultivating your options in quality men that you are attracted to and excited about..

And If you think dating several high-quality men who provide, protect and pursue you at once is a fantasy…

Then it’s a good chance that you have a spiritual deficiency that is causing you to date in scarcity mode. 

And when you’re in scarcity mode…you will find it hard to create abundance with love and quality men. 

In today’s episode, I’m going to share exactly how to move from scarcity mode in your love life so that you can finally have an abundance of quality men to choose from (instead of waiting to be chosen). Dating plenty of the men you desire can be a reality for you. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: 

• What it looks and feels like to date from a place of scarcity.  

• The 3 Spiritual Essentials for creating great abundance in your love life. 

• Why your past experiences with men and dating is irrelevant to your future ability to create an abundant love life. 

• How to be a good steward of your love life so that you increase your capacity to receive more love and attract more men. 

• One of the most overlooked and underappreciated practices when it comes to dating.

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• Episode #14​​ Radical Responsibility While Dating

• My new program FORMATION.

• My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

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“When is it going to be my turn?”

“When am I finally going to meet my husband?”

“Why can’t I be married already?”

These are all questions that are asked by women who are attached to a destination…but not really taking responsibility for and honoring their journey at each milestone. 

They think…

“Once I have this man…this commitment…this partnership..”

“...It’s going to stop my disappointment, my loneliness, my exhaustion, my negative thoughts”

“...And it’s going to make me feel more confident, secure, stable and loved. 

Little do they know that a man can’t do any of this for them.

This is their responsibility. 

In today’s episode, I highlight how so many women give their power to create the love lives they desire over to men and how they can take their power back. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: 

• How our core beliefs trick us into believing that we need men to feel better. 

• The importance of accepting where you are now in order to receive the relationship you desire. 

• How focusing on men is distracting you from having the man you desire. 

• Why you need to slow down, if you want to speed up towards your desired love life. 

• What it looks like to take responsibility for your journey towards marriage so you can create the love life you desire. 

• Why your relationship will fall apart, even if you find the man of your dreams. 

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• Episode #19 - Dating as a Single Mother with Christina David

• My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. 

• My new program FORMATION.

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

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f you find yourself often find yourself drained and disappointed with men

Or that men keep leaving you feeling foolish and that he just wasted your time…

It’s a good chance that you might be a woman who is easily impressed. 

Because an easily impressed woman almost always ends up somebody’s fool.

In today’s episode, learn what it means to be an easily impressed woman, why it’s causing you so much suffering and how to break from this behavior if you are guilty of being easily impressed by the men you date. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: 

• Why easily impressed women don’t operate in the realm of reality.

• How easily impressed women trick themselves into believing that basic actions by men mean more than what they are. 

• 3 Major ways easily impressed women are also easily influenced.

• What to look for to determine if a man’s actions really mean what you think they mean. 

• 3 ways to grow from being a woman who is easily impressed. 

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

• 3 Ways Lady Entrepreneurs Can Attract High Quality Men w/ Joseph Lopez

• Episode #08 - 5 Questions to Ask Yourself to Avoid Overinvesting in a Man

• My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

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As women…we often complain that men objectify us for our bodies and sex.

…because we want to be seen for more than our breasts, thighs and ass. 

We want to be valued for more than what’s between our legs. 

We want to be known and loved for WHO we are as women…and not for what our bodies can do for men. 

Well ironically…WE objectify men just as much as men objectify us. If not, MORE

We’re not objectifying them for sex tho…

We objectify men for RELATIONSHIPS

In today’s episode, I share how so many women objectify men for relationships and how the objectification is preventing them from creating real connections with high-quality men. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: 

• How most women objectify men for relationships and what it looks like. 

• Why objectifying men is so problematic

• The truth behind why so many of us objectify men without even thinking about it. 

• The 3 major holes we try to fill when we objectify men. 

• How to end your cycle of objectifying men so you can finally have healthy relationships with high-quality men 

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

• Episode #04 Dating as a Spiritual Practice

• My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. 

• My new program FORMATION.

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

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Out of all the men we date…there’s always this ONE that we really like…but we find it hard to have him. 

We wanna hear from him daily 

We wanna see him all the time. 

And we freak out when he’s being inconsistent, emotionally unavailable or even pulling away. 

Some of us don’t realize that the ONE we like…is the one that feeds our addiction to dysfunction. 

Like crack, this man stimulates us and even though he is the source of a lot of problems in our life…we still strongly desire him.  

In this episode, I take time to coach a Queen who is addicted to dating a man who is tall, dark and dysfunctional…and we explore why this is a thing for her and what exactly she should do about it. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• The lies we tell ourselves when we are addicted to men who are not good for us. 

• The root causes of our addictions and why we stay stuck in the cycle. 

• How feeling chemistry with a man can also be a sign of dysfunctional addiction. 

• Why it’s not always easy for us  to be interested in other men who are able to offer us healthy forms of companionship. 

• The truth about why we love to be controlled and dominated and why we confuse it with “Alpha” energy. 

• How I lost my voice in my own marriage due to my own relationship addictions

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• My new program FORMATION.

• BOOK: Women Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll Change

• My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

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They say first comes love, then comes marriage…then comes the baby with the baby carriage. 

But what happens when the love leaves and the marriage is over and we are left alone with the baby?

Is new love and marriage still on the table? 

It is for my very good friend Christina David 

She ended at the end of a hard divorce as a single mom with two young children and now she is enjoying dating multiple high-quality men with coins who absolutely adore her. 

Christina specializes in creating an amazing experience for men that magnetizes them and pulls them into her space. 

And in this episode she is killing any myths that single mothers gotta struggle to date or that they can’t attract high quality men who are up for the challenge of ready made families.  

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• How Christina went from going through a devastating divorce to creating a fun, exciting and intentional dating life for herself. 

• How Christina confidently and carefully involves her children in her love life.

• How to balance being a good mother and putting yourself out there to date. 

• How important it is to build a strong support system to help you date as a single mom. 

• What it looks like to be a single mom and dating high-quality men with coins.  

• Christina’s advice to single mom’s who are worried or concerned about dating. 

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• My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

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There’s so many dating gurus (men and women alike) who teach that plus-sized women are not desired by high-quality men for love and marriage. 

But is that really true tho?

Hell nah!

I have my former client and C2C Success Coach, Rashanda Banks here to share what dating as a plus-sized woman is really about when you know what you’re doing. 

Rashanda is the queen of building armies of men who provide, protect and build for women AND helping plus-sized women (like herself) step into their power to achieve this for themselves. 

In this episode, Rashanda and I have a discussion about how she has designed a fun, healing and magical love life that serves her to the highest capacity. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• How Rashanda went from being insecure about her weight to being a confident Queen who attracts high-quality men anywhere and everywhere. 

• How you can do everything “right” to get married and still get it “wrong”

• The simple key to inspiring men to emotionally and financially invest in you. 

• How to have a “soft life” where men show up for you and treat you like precious cargo. 

• The importance of setting boundaries for better dating experiences. 

• Rashanda’s advice for how to finally begin walking in your worth as a plus-sized woman. 

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• The Hot Girl Summa Virtual Retreat

• My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

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“I’ve tried online dating before and it doesn’t work”

I’ve probably heard this a trillion times over my career as a dating coach

Which is so funny because online dating works extremely well and it’s one of the easiest ways to meet high-quality men. 

Truth is…if online dating isn’t working for you, it’s a user error. 

Kind of like if you try to use an ice cream scoop as a hammer….

…or attempt to eat spaghetti with a butter knife

…or fill your little Honda Accord up with diesel fuel. 

In today’s special episode, I share a Clubhouse coaching session where I share a play by play on how to improve your approach to dating online…so that you can match with the best men and have the best kinds of experiences. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• THe importance of setting small intentions every time you log into a dating app

• How easily overthinking will cause you to miss opportunities to connect with high-quality men. 

• The real reason why your conversations are fizzling out on the app.

• The purpose of creating an emotional investment the moment a man sees your profile on the app. 

• The real reason why your conversations are fizzling out on the app.

• How to inspire men to invest in the connection between you and them. 

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• My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

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