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“Why is dating at this age so complicated? Nothing in life is more stressful than dating after 35”

This was a post I read from a fed up woman in my social media feed recently. 

Thing is…tons of women feel just like her. 

Dating isn’t wasn’t stressing them out tho.

They’re stressed out because they haven’t accepted that creating a fun, fruitful and fulfilling dating life actually takes WORK. 

And most people simply don’t want to do the WORK to have it. 

Cindy is an amazing example of what it looks like to DO the work to have a deliciously dating life and enjoy yummy high-quality men in the process. 

Join me for today’s episode as Cindy (Cuff-link from February 2023 Cohort) shares how she did the work to go from stressed out and depressed about her love life…to feeling more youthful, energetic, relaxed and connected to herself (as well as more connected to men she’s dating)

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

🔥 How Cindy created a delicious dating life at the age of 48 (after years of low self-worth and stress around relationships)

🔥 Why Cindy believed it was unrealistic to have an abundant love life and the steps she took to finally make it a reality for herself. 

🔥 How Cindy overcame self-sabotage, self-consciousness and victimhood in order to have the desires of her heart when it came to friends, family and fine ass men. 

🔥 Behind the scenes of how Cindy pushed past doubt and her fears to finally turn her dating dreams into a reality

🔥 How Dating as a Spiritual Practice allowed Cindy to shift her entire experience from feeling abandoned and overlooked…to being desired and adored. 

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• Join my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality Men

• Enroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. 

• Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. 

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

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I get a lot of complaints from women who struggle talking to men they’re dating. 

Their text and phone convos are either super boring…OR they fizzle out way too fast. 

They think they need to DO more things to fix it…like learn a new set of questions to spice things up..

OR talk more on the phone so that the connection stays strong. 

You don’t have to DO more or talk more to have the types of conversations you desire…

…you simply need to BE different while having these conversations. 

In today’s episode, I’m gonna share how to BE a woman who creates fun, enjoyable, and deep conversations with men…that lead to more intimacy, trust…and commitment. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

👉🏾 How inauthenticity is killing your conversations and connections with men.

👉🏾 The biggest mistakes women make during conversations with men that lead to them fizzling out fast. 

👉🏾 The truth about “being intentional” and how you’re actually being aggressive and scary

👉🏾Why it’s super important to know the “Why” behind the words you say with men

👉🏾Practical ways to build trust, intimacy and rapport with your conversations with men

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• Join my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality Men

• Enroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. 

• Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. 

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

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Been having a lot of interesting conversations with new clients about why they believe they haven’t been attracting quality men. 

Funny thing is…when I listen to their complaints during our coaching sessions…summa the ladies don’t really have much evidence to support their beliefs. 

They’re truly convinced that their biggest problem is not being able to attract quality men. 

Maybe it is…maybe it isn’t.

In today’s episode, we’re gonna have a conversation about your ability to attract quality men. Together we’re gonna uncover whether you have a real issue attracting them or if it’s simply a delusion. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• The real reason why you believe you aren’t able to attract high-quality men

• The truth bomb I drop that is confusing at first, but provides true clarity on why you may or may have not been able to attract quality men. 

• The bare bones explanation of what a quality man is and the traits they usually possess. 

• Several professional “diagnoses” that may be contributing to why you find it hard to meet, attract and build romantic relationships with quality men

• Examples of practical actions my clients have taken (and you can too) to expand their capacity to attract quality men almost immediately 

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• Date With Cents Episode #2: What is a Quality Man
• Join my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality Men

• Enroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. 

• Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. 

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

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I know a huge pain point for so many women of faith is that they’re tired of things fizzling out between them and the men they’re dating.

They’ll have great chemistry with a guy…go on a couple of dates…and as soon as they get emotionally invested…they either stop hearing from him…

…OR he pulls away and wants to be friends.

They think the solution is to get more time on the phone with these men or to see them more during the week. 

They have this belief that if they talk more and spend more time together…

…that it would be harder for things to fizzle out

…and easier for the relationship to progress and get stronger. 

So not true. 

No worries tho… I come bearing a solution. 

In today’s episode, I share a simple way to build deeper connections with men through your conversation so that you experience less “fizzling out” and more progress in your relationships with men

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• The one little mistake women make that leads to men easily pulling away within weeks (even if these men were excited about connecting at first). 

• How small-talk is killing your relationships with men before they even get started. 

• How you can build a strong, intimate connection with a man in just one day per week. 

• The 7 types of conversational shares that intrigue quality men and inspire them to want to be more intentional about getting to know you. 

• How to deepen your connections with men by improving your connections with family, friends and even co-workers

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

• Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/apply

• Join my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality Men

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed

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If you’re going out on tons of dates with men you like…and your connections almost always fizzle out or never lead to anything…

…let me ask you this: 

Are you being open and vulnerable? 

After working with hundreds of clients, I've discovered that there is a direct connection between a man being inspired to pursue and a woman’s ability to be vulnerable. 

In today’s episode, find out dating never leads to anything for you, why it's super hard for you to open up and be vulnerable AND how you can step into the version of you that feels safe to open up and truly connect with men who respect, honor and love who you are.  

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• The fundamental truth behind why your interactions with men always fizzle out in just a few days or weeks. 

• Why most women of faith struggle with creating deeper relationships with men while dating (and how not to be stuck in this same cycle)

• All the ways the world makes it hard for women of faith to open up and truly express themselves. 

• The real reason why Lori Harvey and Ciara are demonized and the repressive ripple effect it creates against women of faith. 

• The easiest way to begin transforming the way you connect with men and the world, so that you can start living more of the life you love and dating the way you desire. 

• Real examples of real women who changed their lives through learning how to open up and allow the world to see them for who they really are. 

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

• Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. 

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/apply

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

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Food for thought: 

Many times when you feel men aren’t emotionally available…

…it’s actually because YOU are the one who is being emotionally unavailable.

And I say this with my whole chest because 99.9% of the time when women come to me and say: 

“Torah! How do I stop attracting men who are emotionally unavailable” 

I’m able to dig deeper and discover that these same women have difficulty being emotionally available…but have no idea they’re being this way.

In today’s episode, I break down how so many women of faith are emotionally unavailable and how it’s destroying their dating lives. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• How holding back your thoughts and feelings is ruining your relationships with quality men before they even get started

• The simple truth behind why men are not opening their heart to you or pursuing you for a more serious relationship.

• The scary stories most women of faith believe are preventing them from emotionally connecting with men. 

• Deep impactful questions to ask yourself whenever you find yourself in a pattern of emotional unavailability.  ways men feel unsafe to commit and/or express themselves with the women they date

• Simple ways to provide emotional safety to a man and make room for his emotions so that he feels safe to share his heart and life with you.

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

• Register for the Triple Threat Success Training this Saturday.  Learn the 3 Part Framework to Transform your Love Life in 90 Days.

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/apply

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

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“He just wants to hang out or keep things casual”

“He doesn’t express how he really feels about me”

“He doesn’t discuss plans for me in his life. He just goes with the flow” 

“He never wants to talk about his past or what’s bothering him”

Many women might see this as an emotionally unavailable man…but I'm not so quick to jump to that conclusion. 

Based upon experience as a love coach…many of these men are emotionally available…but don’t yet feel safe with the women they’re dating. 

In today’s episode, I share how many women aren’t able to emotionally connect with men (and inspire them to commit) because they aren’t providing emotional safety.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• The truth behind why a man might be really interested in you…and still avoid pursuing you for a real relationship

• How my clients are attracting quality men who seriously pursue them for relationships…even though they claimed they wanted to “go with the flow”

• 3 common (yet overlooked) ways men feel unsafe to commit and/or express themselves with the women they date

• Simple ways to provide emotional safety to a man and make room for his emotions so that he feels safe to share his heart and life with you.

• My suggestions for how to interact with men without worry, anxiety, or fear that comes along with being attached to a future outcome. 

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

• Date With Cents Podcast Episode #3: High Connection/Low Attachment

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/apply

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

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One of the biggest misconceptions I hear a lot as a love coach is that the older you get…the harder it is to date…

…and the harder it is to meet quality men. 

I’m here to say that it’s all lies. 

I don’t care if you’re in your 40s, 50s and even 60s.

Florence is a great example of what it looks like to have a fun, fruitful, forward-moving dating experience…in your 50s. 

Join me for today’s episode as Florence (Cuff-link from April 2022 Cohort ) tells all about how she went from being divorced with no dating skills to creating an amazing love life filled with high-quality men (young and “old”)

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• How Florence created a delicious dating life filled with high-quality men while over the age of 50. 

• Florence’s journey from divorce (after 22 years of marriage)…to being surrounded by quality men who provide, protect and build for her. 

• The huge role gratitude played when it comes to creating expansion and abundance in Florence’s love life. 

• How Florence overcame religious, culture and social conditioning to date with more freedom and lots more fun.

• The one key Florence learned in order to have her desires regularly fulfilled while dating.  

• Behind the scenes of how Florence gained the courage to put herself out there and finally live and love on her own terms. 

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at www.curved2cuffed.com/apply

• My Daily Clubhouse Room

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

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There’s a lot of dating nonsense floating around about women who are 35+

“You’re a leftover woman”

“Men know something is wrong with you”

“God might want you to be single”

And what I hate the most is that so many single women are choosing to believe this. 

Faith was one who believed that since she was over 35 and didn’t meet her original timeline for marriage…that God might’ve been calling her to a life of singleness. 

That all changed during the pandemic when she decided to honor her desire for marriage and really put in the work to have it for herself. She was done being the wedding planner who planned everyone else’s wedding, but not her own. 

Join me for today’s episode as Faith (former client and C2C Success Coach) tells all about how she went from being overlooked by men to creating quality dating options that led to her choosing her husband. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• How Faith created a delicious love life filled with high-quality men after the age of 35. 

• How the pandemic became an eye-opening experience that led to Faith getting serious about making her love life a priority. 

• Faith’s journey from being super single and waiting on God…..to married within a year. 

• The one breakthrough Faith had that dramatically improved the quality of the men she attracted and the dating experiences she had. 

• Behind the scenes of how Faith gained the confidence and tools to attract the man and marriage she desired. 

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at www.curved2cuffed.com/apply

• My Daily Clubhouse Room

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed

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Abstinence can be a period for self-love, personal growth and honor of one’s faith.

But because so many women of faith are going on abstinent journeys AND they have no viable marriage options…it is becoming more of a period of dysfunction. 

See…women of faith are wanting sex, BUT they are also waiting for marriage. 

This is a problem because most women of faith aren’t creating love lives that lead to marriage. 

And because they aren’t creating marriage options for themselves…they’re going into their late 30s, 40s and 50s single and sexually unsatisfied…

… and it results in psychological and physical consequences to their bodies. 

THIS is dysfunctional.

In today’s episode, I break down how most women of faith are doing abstinence wrong, how to properly honor your sexual choice and how you can begin creating a juicy, love life that will lead you to the marriage you are waiting to have sex for.  

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• The truth behind abstinence journey’s and why you don’t hear them mentioned in the Bible at all. 

• Why I’m Pro-abstinent and how my clients learn to date successfully without having sex. 

• What women who wait on sex need to learn in order to be successful with finding love.

• How being abstinent without romantic options leads to endless sexual starvation

• The real reason why men don’t wanna date abstinent women. 

• Why women who believe they are dating  “God’s way” are delusional. 

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

• Learn more about working with me in Formation HERE.

• How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/apply

• My Daily Clubhouse Room.

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed