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A few weeks ago, I walked away from a good man  after dating him for over a year and a half.

In this episode, I'm breaking down what made me walk away from a man most women would have stayed with and why I don't regret it for a second. 

You'll discover why looks and investment alone don't move me anymore, what happens when you try to adjust a man into generosity instead of requiring it from the start, and why you don't need a "good enough reason" to leave when something stops being in alignment with you.

Ready to stop staying with men just because they look good on paper and start trusting your decisions even when the room disagrees? Listen now.

Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.

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I used to be the woman who let a man decide whether my week was good or bad. My marriage taught me that. 

When it ended, I couldn't get out of bed for weeks because I had outsourced my entire sense of safety to him. 

That's when I had to ask a different question: “Why am I making my peace depend on whether a man can be trusted at all?”

This episode walks you through the six steps that got me from that woman to the woman I am now—the one who dates without scanning men for proof they won't hurt me, who sleeps peaceful at night not stressed about what a man is doing, and who can walk away from anything that doesn't serve me. 

Because when you trust yourself more than you trust any man, disappointment can't destroy you.

Work with me to stop being scared of a man hurting you and start building the kind of love life where it doesn't matter either way.

Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.

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If you’re a woman of faith who struggles with putting in too much effort while dating

….but not getting much in return from the men you date, this episode is for you. 

You’re the woman who is always making time

You’re the woman who is there to provide emotional support,

You’re the woman who is always keeping conversations going.

You’re the woman who is always there to make men feel good about themselves.

Join me in this episode to hear the difference between “putting in too much effort” and putting in the right kind of effort for delicious dating results.   

Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…

…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. 

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

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Part of the reason why you waste time on the wrong men is because you’re EASY.

All it takes is for a man to pay you some consistent attention and now you’re his girlfriend. 

And then you get big mad when you realized you invested months…sometimes years into a man who wasn’t worth all that effort

There’s no wonder why you’re always so drained and disappointed with men

Listen closely to this episode as I help you uncover your power to choose the right man for you, instead of settling for being chosen. 

Be prepared to reclaim your time!

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: 

• My signature model for a premium dating experience for high-achieving women of faith.

• What it means to be a good H.O.E and how it puts you in a position of power.

• 7 Practical guidelines that will help you vet men before you go exclusive with them.

• A unique approach to rotational dating that will lead you to date better men and have better dating experiences. 

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

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“There’s not enough quality men out here for quality women.”

That’s the lie we tell ourselves when we’re not ready to do the work. 

The truth is that there are more than enough quality men for quality women

AND quality women aren’t finding it hard to meet these men. 

Why?

Because they are doing the real work towards creating the love lives the desire

And that work is deeper than being a nice girl who has her shit together. 

It’s deeper than being educated, financially stable and knowing how to cook and clean. 

Listen to this episode as I share with you the REAL work that quality women are doing daily that allows them to attract, meet and connect with an abundance of quality men. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: 

• What it really means to “work on yourself” while dating. 

• The difference between a decent woman and a quality woman

• A quality woman’s biggest super power that helps her navigate dating. 

• The high-quality characteristics that attract high-quality men

• Why it’s important to embrace “messiness” on your dating journey

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

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You finally have multiple men pursuing you, but now you don't know what the hell to do with them ... .so you're either picking whoever texts back fastest or stressing yourself out trying to be "fair" to everyone.

Most women think the goal is just getting men's attention, but the real challenge is knowing how to handle it when you actually have choices. You end up settling for the first guy who's consistent or getting overwhelmed and picking based on who gives you butterflies instead of who's actually right for you.

I'm breaking down exactly what to do when you have real options so you stop making decisions from panic and start choosing the man who actually fits your life.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

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Last week, we talked about how Women of Faith tend to attract the wrong kind of men—the manipulative, irresponsible, and insecure ones…

…and how those "good girl" habits can end up pushing away the intelligent, cultured, and emotionally available men who are actually ready for a real, committed relationship.

This week, we're going step by step on how you can break those habits for good, so you can start dating quality men who truly appreciate you for who you are.

If you’re a Woman of Faith struggling with “Good girl” syndrome, tune into this episode for a masterclass on how to shed those limiting behaviors and attract the kind of relationship you deserve. 

Interested in working with me 1:1? If you’re ready to drop the “good girl” act to attract quality men who appreciate the woman you really are, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

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That fear of doing all the work, showing up differently in dating, and still not getting chosen is keeping many women stuck in dating limbo…afraid to fully commit to finding love.

If you've been consuming dating advice without applying it, deleting apps after two days, or hiding behind stories of being "too busy" or "not ready yet," you're not protecting yourself…you're guaranteeing nothing changes. 

In this episode, I break down why this fear exists, what it's actually costing you, and how to start collecting evidence that love is possible for you exactly as you are right now.

I'll share actionable steps to move past this fear and build momentum in your love life, whether or not you ever work with me.

If you're ready to stop dating like you're trying not to get hurt and start showing up fully for love, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. 

 Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

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Out of all the men we date…there’s always this ONE that we really like…but we find it hard to have him. 

We wanna hear from him daily 

We wanna see him all the time. 

And we freak out when he’s being inconsistent, emotionally unavailable or even pulling away. 

Some of us don’t realize that the ONE we like…is the one that feeds our addiction to dysfunction. 

Like crack, this man stimulates us and even though he is the source of a lot of problems in our life…we still strongly desire him.  

In this episode, I take time to coach a Queen who is addicted to dating a man who is tall, dark and dysfunctional…and we explore why this is a thing for her and what exactly she should do about it. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• The lies we tell ourselves when we are addicted to men who are not good for us. 

• The root causes of our addictions and why we stay stuck in the cycle. 

• How feeling chemistry with a man can also be a sign of dysfunctional addiction. 

• Why it’s not always easy for us  to be interested in other men who are able to offer us healthy forms of companionship. 

• The truth about why we love to be controlled and dominated and why we confuse it with “Alpha” energy. 

• How I lost my voice in my own marriage due to my own relationship addictions

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Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

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We live in a time where women have more choices than ever before. 

We can buy our own property…we can go to school for whatever…we can choose our own careers, we can play professional sports. 

We can even go to war if we want to. 

And  even with all of these modern freedoms…we still have societal chains that keep us in bondage…

…that keeps us from TRULY being who we want to be and DOING what we want to do. 

And this directly impacts our ability to have deep, authentic dating experiences and abundant, expansive love lives. 

In today’s episode, I expose how Women of Faith have allowed the “Good Girl Complex” to keep them small in their love lives. We are trading our personal freedom to be slaves to our comfort zone and for people pleasing and male approval.  And it’s destroying the way we live and love because of fear and shame. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 

• What it means to “fall in love” and why you should be doing it as often as possible while dating. 

• How Caresha (Young Miami) chose her own romantic path, but is still triggered by it.  

• The real reason why “good girls” police other women’s life choices concerning her body, sex and dating practices. 

• The truth of how following male relationship gurus really condition you to stay under male domination and control.

• Why men will praise you for being “wife material”, but never try to make you their wife. 

Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed