When you're at a place when you've learned to say no to things that don't feel right...how do you also strike that balance of saying yes without settling or sacrificing? For the last #brunchtalk of the season (don't worry, there will be more!), we're discussing how to assess your compatibility meter, the proper expectations of when you should "know" with someone, and why it's possible to hold certain boundaries while being open to the possibilities of love.

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Are setbacks inevitable while dating? We think so – and it's more about how you handle them to move forward. We're joined today with setback expert Amy Shoenthal to take us through the setback cycle to navigate everything from breakups, rejection, thinking you met “the one” only to realize it wasn’t, and everything in between. We're discussing what constitutes as a setback, how they can actually be a force to bring you in the right direction, and why setbacks can help you if you let them.

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What happens if you have totally different political views than someone you're seeing...or in this case have been f*cking for the last 15 years? Join us for this week's brunch talk as discuss how much political affiliation matters in the scheme of your relationships, what the line is between a friends-with-benefits and someone you date, and how you can decide if you can come to terms with varying views or if this is a no go for your relationship. 

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We've talked about Dating Sabbaticals but what about Relationship Sabbaticals? Yue is reflecting on the conversation we had with Mark Groves this week about the need to take an intentional pause and how this could serve her relationships – past, present, and future. If you've wondered before if you should stay or go, or when the relationship is worth fighting for, this one is for you!

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We're so excited to have long-awaited guest, Mark Groves in the house! And even more importantly, diving into his story about breaking up – and getting back together– with his now-wife Kylie McBeath and what this experience taught him about relationships. We're discussing how both parties must take responsibility owning their sh*t, what it actually means to build a relationship 2.0, and why liberating yourself from the patterns of your relationship is the only way forward.

Even if you're not interested in reconnecting with your ex (um...bye), this episode is a must listen as it'll teach you so much about love, growth, and what's necessary for a relationship that lasts. And you'll hear how Julie used the tools in this episode to build a relationship 2.0 even in her current relationship.

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Learn more about Mark at https://markgroves.com/ and https://createthelove.com/ (he's officially off Instagram!) and check out his new book 'Liberated Love' https://markgroves.com/elementor-landing-page-1696/

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What's the difference between a little road rage and an abusive partner? How do you know what signs end up being a problem later on? Join us for this week's brunch talk as discuss what to do if your partner's anger is making you uncomfortable in any way, how to consider your own triggers and why this may be bothering you, and ways to share your concerns about their activation.

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Whether you're into the woo-woo sh*t or not, there's no denying the power of asking for what you want from the universe – especially when it comes to love. Join us as we chat with Erin Rachel Doppelt about how she manifested her highest powered soulmate (i.e her husband) and how you can also create the love life you desire. We're discussing everything from feeling states to snapshot manifestations, why it's important to trust your divine timing, and how the right love is pivotal in creating a meaningful & fulfilling life.

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Vagina Tingles (our first episode with Erin!)

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Learn more about Erin @erindoppelt and check out her new book 'Nothing Can Stop You: https://www.erinracheldoppelt.com/NothingCanStopYou

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Co-workers can be that great untapped resource for love...or potential nightmare if it doesn't work out. So what do you do when you have feelings for a coworker? And what happens when you've either asked them out before or hinted to it? Join us as we discuss the intricacies of moving from coworkers to lovers, how to take each other out of a "work" context and get to know them on a more personal level, and ways to approach the situation that won't make an awkward encounter if the feelings aren't returned.

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It's time to celebrate y'all....because it's our 500th episode!!! And for this special occasion we're getting raw and real about relationships and what we've learned going from confused daters to being in committed long-term partnerships. We're discussing how even the healthiest of relationships can be triggering, the types of things that are completely normal in a relationship (that don't always seem so), and why it's important to normalize both the benefits and challenges that comes with having another human by your side. 

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She Loves Me, She Loves Me Not (our first ever episode, look how much we've grown!!!)

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What do you do when you're on a great date....and your date calls you the complete wrong name? Is this a total dealbreaker or a funny story you can laugh about later? Join us for this week's brunch talk as we debate how big of a deal this is (we have differing opinions here!), ways you can come back from this mistake if you want to, and why modern dating is set up to make situations like this bound to happen.

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