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Dating In Your 40s (And Beyond): Special Dateable Edition


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Are you navigating the dating world in your 40s—or beyond—and wondering why things feel so different? You're not alone! In Episode 406 of The Charisma Quotient, "Dating In Your 40's (And Beyond):  Special Dateable Edition" Kimmy is invited onto the dynamic Dateable Podcast with hosts Julie and Yue. The conversation dives deep into the world of dating in your 40s, 50s, 60s, and beyond 

The tables are turned as Kimmy sits in the guest seat, opening up about her own experience moving cross-country, dealing with divorce, rediscovering herself, and re-entering the dating scene as a single mom. She reveals the pivotal moment that reignited her confidence: the famous red dress story, where shopping for something outside her comfort zone became the catalyst for a complete mindset (and life) shift.

The conversation dives into the real-life challenges of dating in your 40s, 50s, 60s, and beyond: from evolving attraction and patterns, to balancing careers, family, and social lives, to confronting limiting beliefs about "the dating pool" at any age. Kimmy unpacks why your "second act" can be your strongest yet, and how clarity, confidence, and a willingness to try new things—whether that's a new outfit or a new approach to flirting—can make all the difference.

 You'll hear:

  • Why dating after 40 isn't a consolation prize — it's often a "reset" filled with wisdom, clarity, and deeper authenticity.

  • How to break out of old "types," refresh your flirt game, and finally have fun again—even if you haven't dated in decades.

  • First-hand advice for navigating dating apps, balancing busy lives, and prioritizing your own happiness.

  • The truth about age, attraction, and that so-called "shrinking dating pool" (spoiler: it's all about mindset and action—not your birth date).

If you are a later dater and getting caught in the friendzone often or not feeling the chemistry on dates, join Kimmy for her next co-ed interactive workshop called Unleash Your Sexy Confidence where you will learn the art of attraction and chemistry.  Go to www.stophatingdating.com to register.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

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