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Deadlocks in Divorce: Strategies for Non-Disclosure, Valuation Fights, and Stonewalling

09.12.2023 - By Laura & LynPlay

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Are you facing the challenges of dividing up the property in your divorce and are stuck in a deadlock? Join us as we answer key questions and provide practical tips for handling deadlocks in divorce property settlements. Whether you're handling your divorce independently or with legal representation, these insights will empower you to drive the process forward effectively.   We delve into the pressing topic of handling deadlocks in divorce negotiations, offering valuable guidance to help you navigate these complex situations. Discover practical strategies for dealing with non disclosure,  asset valuation and stonewalling tactics sometimes used by other parties. We explore options for breaking through these deadlocks, ensuring a fair distribution of assets.   Learn how to manage your emotions during this process and understand the emotional value of items in play. We'll also share techniques for fostering an equitable mindset in asset division. Gain a better understanding of how to approach divorce negotiations with a business-like attitude.   While we can't replace personalised legal advice (which you should always get from your own legal representative before taking any actions in your case,) we aim to equip you with the knowledge and confidence to tackle asset division challenges head-on.   Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.    Deadlocks in Divorce: Strategies for Non-Disclosure, Valuation Fights, and Stonewalling   You Don’t Want to Miss Out On What are some practical tips for dealing with deadlock situations in divorce? How can you stop the 'What ifs?' from running in your head? What can you do if your ex doesn’t do disclosure? What happens if your ex won’t let you see their bank statements etc. How do you turn your anxiety about asset division into a 'So what?' attitude? What if you've given a deadline for asset valuation, and it passes without a response? How can you ensure you follow through with your stated actions if the other party doesn't cooperate? What strategies can you employ to deal with deadlocks in divorce negotiations? What can you do if you're handling the divorce process on your own without legal representation? How can you make sure you're effectively driving the divorce process forward? Is it essential to treat divorce negotiations like a business transaction? How can we value items like cars, jewellery, and other assets? Valuation can be expensive. What if someone can't afford it? How do you un-deadlock a situation when you can't even afford to pay for valuation? How do you determine if you're being difficult about a certain item due to past emotions? What is the emotional value of an item, and how does that play into the decision-making process? How can you ensure equitable distribution of assets? What strategies can be used to divide assets fairly? Are there alternative methods for estimating the value of items? How can online resources like Facebook Marketplace or Redbook help in estimating values? How important is attitude adjustment in resolving valuation disputes? What steps can individuals take to adjust their attitude towards asset division?   Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course   Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below Delay Tactics in Divorce: How to counter then & How it can affect your Property, Children's & Domestic Violence Matters    DIY Divorce Disclosure and Discovery, for property settlement & child support   Untangling the Value: How to Navigate Valuations in Divorce & De Facto Separation property Settlements    How to divorce a statue: 7 tips to divorce an avoidant ex even if they stonewall you or disappear.    If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732   Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you’ve found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you.  Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.   

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