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"Was it all a lie? Did I ever actually matter?" In one of his most requested deep-dives, Lee Hammock answers the question that keeps every survivor awake at night. Discover the difference between being "loved" and being "useful," and learn how a narcissist’s lack of object constancy allows them to discard you without a second thought. This is the closure you’ve been looking for.
Key Topics:
Why you mattered as a "Tool," not a "Person"
The science of Object Constancy in Narcissism
Why they don’t mourn the relationship like you do
Ready to find your own closure? Hit Follow and join our community of survivors. 🧠✨
Connect with Lee:
Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesss
If this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal. 🌟
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"Was it all a lie? Did I ever actually matter?" In one of his most requested deep-dives, Lee Hammock answers the question that keeps every survivor awake at night. Discover the difference between being "loved" and being "useful," and learn how a narcissist’s lack of object constancy allows them to discard you without a second thought. This is the closure you’ve been looking for.
Key Topics:
Why you mattered as a "Tool," not a "Person"
The science of Object Constancy in Narcissism
Why they don’t mourn the relationship like you do
Ready to find your own closure? Hit Follow and join our community of survivors. 🧠✨
Connect with Lee:
Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesss
If this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal. 🌟

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