Don't Blame Me!

Don't Blame Me!

By Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. MontsComedySociety & CultureRelationships
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  • Insecure Bottom

    After debating if they'd want to have sex with Jack Harlow, Meghan and Melisa give advice on:


    • Trusting your boyfriend after you caught him texting another girl
    • If your mother-in-law doesn't know you're married
    • Approaching age-gap relationships with future kids
    • Boyfriend not sure he wants to try anal sex again
    • Don't Blame Them: Don't date your boss

    • Sexological Body Work: https://www.insider.com/sex-love-goop-sexological-bodywork-illegal-except-in-california-2021-10


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      • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

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        1 hr 4 min
      • Riding Tips

        This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on

        • Update: Moving On In A Relationship
        • Support a friend going through a breakup
        • Partner to listening during sex
        • Sobriety in college
        • Learning to ride
        • Don't Blame Them: Problems with your boyfriend staying hard
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          • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
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          • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

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            1 hr 9 min
          • Guest: Mats - Getting Over the Love of Your Life

            This week we're joined by Mats, Meghan's ex-boyfriend/current fiancé for the annual Valentine's Day Episodes. This week they discuss:

            • Feeling insecure in a relationship
            • Moving on
            • What to do when your boyfriend isn't putting in effort
            • Figuring out feelings for your fuck buddy
            • Don't Blame Them: Dealing with noisy neighbors
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              • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
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              • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

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                47 min
              • Dating Standards

                This week we're sharing advice on:

                • Update - Snitching on your cousin
                • Tell your dad he sucks at DIY projects
                • Going to a concert without your boyfriend because he has Covid
                • Setting your standards while dating
                • Boyfriend doesn't want to move in with you anymore
                • Don't Blame Them - Going for a guy in your graduate program

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                  Need Advice?

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                  • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
                  • International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected]
                  • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.


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                    1 hr 17 min
                  • I'm In Love With My Boss... and My Boyfriend Knows

                    This week we're sharing advice on:

                    • Annoying neighbors
                    • Breaking up and moving out
                    • Having sex for the first time and he won't stay hard
                    • Being obsessed with your boss
                    • Don't Blame Them: Comparing your life to your therapist's life

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                      Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf


                      Need Advice?

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                      • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
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                      • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.


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                        49 min
                      • I Want To Hook Up With Other People

                        This week we're sharing advice on: 

                        • Update: Breaking up with a FWB
                        • Dating with social anxiety
                        • Seeing someone who is emotionally unavailable
                        • Telling your main FWB you want to be in a relationship with them
                        • Bringing up non-monogamy to your partner
                        • Don't Blame Them: Masturbating in a relationship


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                            … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

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                            58 min
                          • My Nurse Friend Stole Medication

                            This week we're sharing advice on: 

                            • Boyfriend berating you because his dog bites you
                            • Dating your ex after taking a break
                            • Dating for 4 months and making plans to move in
                            • Your friend lying about pharmaceuticals
                            • Don't Blame Them: Snitching on Younger Cousin


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                                … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

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                                1 hr 5 min
                              • REPLAY - Guest: Nicole Byer - Boyfriend Has a Spank Bank of Me and Our Friends?

                                aka: The one that happened minutes after Meghan had a seizure


                                Comedian Nicole Byer is here this week to share advice! We’re answering your questions on what to do if you match with your professor on Tinder, how to communicate with a friend that left the country for a man, how to handle your ex boyfriend who’s “addicted” to weed and owes you money, and what to say to your partner when you’re ready to lose your virginity. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares how she overcame fuck boy syndrome. 

                                 

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                                •  

                                  … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

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                                  1 hr 5 min
                                • REPLAY - M&M: Hooking Up With Friend’s Crush

                                  Original Air Date: January 14, 2019

                                  You guys wanted episode with just Melisa and I, so here you go! This week we're sharing our advice on catching your friend at your ex's house, meeting your boyfriend's abusive parents, moving away from being friends with benefits, and getting rejected because you're bi. We also have a caller sharing her own advice about a clingy roommate. 

                                   

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                                  55 min
                                • REPLAY - Guest: Zach Kornfeld - Falling Out of Love

                                  Zach Kornfeld from the Try Guys is here this week to share advice! We're answering your questions on what to do if your live-in boyfriend offers no financial security, if your boyfriend hangs out with your other female roommate more than you, dealing with being shamed into having sex, and how to get rid of an ex that's stalking you.

                                   

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                                    •  

                                      … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! I'll do my best to share my wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame me if I screw up your life. I kid! My advice IS AMAZING.

                                       

                                      - Want to WATCH this episode as well? Check out my YouTube channel:

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                                      1 hr 29 min

                                    About Don't Blame Me!

                                    From the publisher's feed

                                    Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it.

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