Don't Blame Me!

Don't Blame Me!

By Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. MontsComedySociety & CultureRelationships
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  • My Boyfriend Is Researching Escorts

    Update: Sparks in a relationship

    Meghan and Melisa give advice on:

    • Working on yourself while keeping 2 guys on hold
    • Unblocking and re-following an ex on social media
    • Waiting to get in a fight with your partner
    • Catching your boyfriend googling sex workers
    • Don't Blame Them: FOMO
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      • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

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        1 hr 27 min
      • He Dumped Me But Still Wants to Hook Up

        Update: Breaking while still on a lease


        Meghan and Melisa give advice on:

        • Boyfriend refuses to move out of the country
        • Needing a terrible job for graduate school
        • Traveling with a boyfriend that doesn't like flying
        • Breaking up after a long distance relationship
        • Don't Blame Them: Wedding tips

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          Need Advice?

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          • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
          • International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected]
          • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

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            1 hr 37 min
          • My Sister Abandoned Her 3 Kids

            We’ve been gone for two weeks, but we’re back and very chatty, so this is a long one. 


            Meghan and Melisa give advice on:

            • Moving on from a long term relationship
            • How to be an actor
            • Family not dealing with familial issues
            • Don't Blame Them: Dealing with an overbearing “mentor”
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              Need Advice?

              • www.dontblameme.show
              • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
              • International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected]
              • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

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                1 hr 36 min
              • REPLAY: He Cheated with a Witch

                Original Air Date 11/2/2022


                This week we're sharing advice on: 

                 

                • Work woes
                • Choosing between two guys
                • Choosing a therapist
                • Update: Boyfriend cheating in many ways
                •  

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                  •  

                    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! I'll do my best to share my wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame me if I screw up your life. I kid! My advice IS AMAZING. 


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                    1 hr 21 min
                  • REPLAY: M&M July - Numb Mouth After Sucking the D

                    Original Air Date: July 8, 2019


                    This week we’re answering your questions on what to do if your boyfriend doesn’t want to hang out with you family, negotiating your sugar baby status, returning to normalcy after a break up, and having compassion for your sociopath brother. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice on being scared that you’re going to get pregnant.



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                    Need Advice? 

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                    • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
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                    • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! I’ll do my best to share my wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame me if I screw up your life. I kid! My advice IS AMAZING.


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                      1 hr 11 min
                    • Friend Thinks I Slept With Her Ex

                      Meghan and Melisa give advice on:

                      • Crushing on a coworker
                      • FOMO
                      • Boyfriend's mother being judgmental
                      • Accusations from a former friend
                      • Don't Blame Them: Spark in a relationship
                      • Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me

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                        @by.meghan.and.melisa

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                        Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf

                        Need Advice?

                        • www.dontblameme.show
                        • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
                        • International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected]
                        • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

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                          1 hr 21 min
                        • Sparks When Dating

                          Meghan and Melisa give advice on:

                          • Overstepping mentor
                          • Inconsiderate roommate
                          • Chemistry in relationships
                          • Helping a friend in a terrible relationship
                          • Don't Blame Them: Dealing with nosey parents

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                            • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
                            • International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected]
                            • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

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                              1 hr 9 min
                            • MLM Predators

                              Meghan and Melisa give advice on:

                              • Update: Racist/House Stealing/Succubus Cheater
                              • Friend constantly canceling plans
                              • Warning a client about MLMs
                              • Going to a music festival with someone who hates music festivals
                              • Shopping Addiction
                              • Don't Blame Them: Converting religions for a partner
                              • Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me

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                                Need Advice?

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                                • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
                                • International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected]
                                • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

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                                  1 hr 11 min
                                • BAIW: Kicking Out A House Guest

                                  Melisa thinks singing should be banned on planes and Meghan wants allergens put on menus.

                                  They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations:

                                  • Stepmom mad that you thank her in an email
                                  • Houseguest outstaying their welcome
                                  • Friend getting mad that you like her friend better
                                  • Boyfriend and his mom not lowering your rent

                                    • And in "But Are They Wrong" AKA "Rachel of The Week" they discuss Judge Kathryn Kimball Mizelle and Revolve Festival.


                                    • Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/


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                                      1 hr 37 min
                                    • Unwanted Spiritual Texts

                                      Meghan and Melisa give advice on:

                                      • Update: The Bride Peed on Me
                                      • Brother-In-Laws's girlfriend doesn't like me
                                      • Not wanting to work anymore
                                      • Texts from former Fellowship of Christian Athletes leader
                                      • Not going to friend's wedding
                                      • Don't Blame Them: Possible misgendering

                                      • Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me

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                                        Need Advice?

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                                        • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
                                        • International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected]
                                        • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

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                                          1 hr 50 min

                                        About Don't Blame Me!

                                        From the publisher's feed

                                        Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it.

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