Don't Blame Me!

Don't Blame Me!

By Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. MontsComedySociety & CultureRelationships
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  • Be An Informant

    Melisa tells about her day from hell and then...


    Meghan and Melisa give advice on:

    • Update - Boyfriend feels entitled to my body (10.1)
    • Roommates left apartment filthy
    • Inviting friend's toxic +1 to your wedding
    • Kicked off ex's cellphone plan
    • Don't Blame Them - Friend not supporting your move (10.6)



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      • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

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        1 hr 31 min
      • Boyfriend Came Out as Poly

        After discussing Brandy and Whitney's "Cinderella" (again) and the "Never Have I Ever" Season Premiere...


        Meghan and Melisa give advice on:

        • Boyfriend's chemistry with another friend
        • Unvaccinated friend coming around during chemo treatment
        • Co-worker who brings up Trump
        • Don't Blame Them: Boyfriend getting his high school degree

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          • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
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          • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

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            1 hr 21 min
          • Banned From Parents' Home

            Meghan and Melisa give advice on:


            • Life after being cut from dance squad
            • Talking to some a guy of a guy you previously dated
            • Telling a friend you aren't going to their wedding in Hawaii
            • Parents being upset over something seemingly small
            • Don't Blame Them: Returning to working in an office

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              Need Advice?

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              • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
              • International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected]
              • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

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                1 hr 10 min
              • Boyfriend Won't Get High School Diploma

                Meghan and Melisa give advice on:


                • Returning to working in an office
                • Friend not supporting your move
                • Mental health and hybrid working
                • Supporting your boyfriend who hasn't finished high school
                • Don't Blame Them: Compulsory Heterosexuality

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                  @by.meghan.and.melisa

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                  Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf

                  Need Advice?

                  • www.dontblameme.show
                  • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
                  • International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected]
                  • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

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                    1 hr 51 min
                  • Compulsory Heterosexuality

                    Meghan and Melisa give advice on:


                    • Write-In Update: Boyfriend was rude because I forgot that I was going to help him move
                    • If you're being love bombed
                    • Boyfriend won't claim his independence from his parents
                    • Wondering if you're in love with your partner
                    • Telling a friend they're too touchy
                    • Don't Blame Them: My Best Friend's Dad Wants to Sleep With Me

                    • Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me

                      Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891


                      Follow Us!

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                      @by.meghan.and.melisa

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                      Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf

                      Need Advice?

                      • www.dontblameme.show
                      • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
                      • International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected]
                      • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

                        Want to WATCH this episode as well? Become a patron!

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                        1 hr 41 min
                      • Girlfriend Broke Up With Me On Facetime While In Italy

                        After discussing weddings, Meghan and Melisa give advice on:


                        • Boyfriend was rude because I forgot that I was going to help him move
                        • Girlfriend broke up with me while she was in Italy
                        • Friend didn’t show up to bridal shower
                        • DBT: Working with an assistant who acts like your superior
                        • DBT: Not having your ideal job after graduating college

                        • Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me

                          Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891


                          Follow Us!

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                          @sheisnotmelissa

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                          https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa

                          @by.meghan.and.melisa

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                          Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf

                          Need Advice?

                          • www.dontblameme.show
                          • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
                          • International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected]
                          • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

                            Want to WATCH this episode as well? Become a patron!

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                            1 hr 19 min
                          • My Best Friend's Dad Wants to Sleep With Me

                            After discussing Love Island, Meghan and Melisa give advice on:


                            They give advice on:

                            • Update: Peeing Bride - Part II
                            • Working with an assistant who acts like your superior
                            • Not having your ideal job after graduating college
                            • Friend dramatizing their pain
                            • Offered $200 for sex with your friend's dad
                            • Don't Blame Them: Boyfriend feels entitled to your body

                            • Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me

                              Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891


                              Follow Us!

                              @meghanrienks

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                              @sheisnotmelissa

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                              https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa

                              @by.meghan.and.melisa

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                              Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf

                              Need Advice?

                              • www.dontblameme.show
                              • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
                              • International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected]
                              • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

                                Want to WATCH this episode as well? Become a patron!

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                                1 hr 37 min
                              • How to Date Your Ex

                                After discussing Wikifeet and their net worths, Meghan and Melisa then read a write-in update from the person whose boyfriend's friends wrote a slur on his birthday cake.


                                They give advice on:

                                • Being good houseguests
                                • Having a new relationship with your ex
                                • Setting boundaries
                                • Boyfriend not driving you to the airport
                                • Don't Blame Them: Independence of moving to a new city without a relationship 

                                • Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me

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                                  @by.meghan.and.melisa

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                                  Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf

                                  Need Advice?

                                  • www.dontblameme.show
                                  • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
                                  • International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected]
                                  • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

                                    Want to WATCH this episode as well? Become a patron!

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                                    1 hr 11 min
                                  • Boyfriend Feels Entitled to My Body

                                    Meghan and Melisa are back together, in person, celebrating their 10th season of Don't Blame Me!


                                    The give advice on:


                                    • Update: Crushing on your grad school cohort
                                    • Moving in with your boyfriend but feeling behind your other friends that are in relationships
                                    • Having a strained relationship with your mother
                                    • Friend keeps dating creeps
                                    • Boyfriend's touch is overwhelming
                                    • Don't Blame Them: Wanting your partner to uproot their life because of a work opportunity

                                    • Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891


                                      Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me


                                      Follow Us!

                                      @meghanrienks

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                                      https://twitter.com/meghanrienks

                                      @sheisnotmelissa

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                                      https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa

                                      @by.meghan.and.melisa

                                      https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa

                                      Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf

                                      Need Advice?

                                      • www.dontblameme.show
                                      • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
                                      • International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected]
                                      • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

                                        Want to WATCH this episode as well? Become a patron!

                                        https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme

                                        Join the Facebook Group!

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                                        1 hr 25 min
                                      • "Good Guys" Coming Off Wrong

                                        Meghan and Melisa have a rousing conversation about Dora The Explorer, Gracie's Corner, Blippi and Freaky Friday before giving advice on


                                        Meghan and Melisa give advice on:


                                        • Being more invested in a friendship than your friend is
                                        • Boyfriend making excuses for his friends that use homophobic slurs
                                        • A fuckboy claiming you gave him chlamydia
                                        • Your 21 year old friend hanging out with a 35 years man
                                        • Don't Blame Them: Traveling to Hawaii and being frustrated with your boyfriend who has a fear of flying, plus a Write-In Update from the original caller

                                        • Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891


                                          Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me


                                          Follow Us!

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                                          https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa

                                          @by.meghan.and.melisa

                                          https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa

                                          Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf

                                          Need Advice?

                                          • www.dontblameme.show
                                          • Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
                                          • International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected]
                                          • … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.

                                            Want to WATCH this episode as well? Become a patron!

                                            https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme

                                            Join the Facebook Group!

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                                            Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/join/dontblameme


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                                            1 hr 36 min

                                          About Don't Blame Me!

                                          From the publisher's feed

                                          Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it.

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