Breakup to Blessing

Encore: Why loneliness has nothing to do with being single (Being single vs being lonely) Ep. 138


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We often think being single means being lonely – but that's one of the biggest relationship myths out there. The truth? You can be single and completely fulfilled, or in a relationship and feel totally disconnected from your partner.

In this essential episode, I'm breaking down why we confuse relationship status with happiness, and what to do about the loneliness that has nothing to do with whether you're coupled up or not.

What You'll Learn:

The four relationship states we all cycle through – and why only one of them actually matters for your happiness. Why being in a relationship and feeling lonely is actually worse than being single and lonely (and what this taught me about my own patterns).

How to tell if you're staying in a relationship just to avoid being alone – and why this keeps you stuck in disconnection. The real markers of a successful relationship (hint: it has nothing to do with how long you've been together).

What to do when you're single and lonely – including how to meet your connection needs without jumping into the wrong relationship. How to reconnect with your partner if you're feeling distant – and the questions that will tell you if it's worth the effort.

Here's the reality: Whether you're single or partnered, there are specific things you can do right now to reduce loneliness and build the connections that actually fill you up.

The goal isn't just to be in a relationship – it's to create a life where you feel genuinely connected to the people around you, starting with yourself.

If you're feeling lonely right now, this episode will help you figure out exactly what you're really looking for and how to find it in ways that don't involve settling for the wrong person or staying stuck in a relationship that's making you feel more alone.

Key Takeaways:

  • Being single ≠ being lonely (and being coupled ≠ being connected)
  • Quality relationships are built on connection, not just commitment
  • Loneliness is about disconnection, not relationship status
  • You can reduce loneliness whether you're single or partnered
  • The importance of taking action rather than waiting for someone else to fix your situation

Book a free consultation with Sylvia: https://sylviasuwan.com/consultation

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