The Rising Beyond Podcast

Ep 147: Co-Parenting with a Manipulative Ex: How to Shield Your Child from Coercive Control


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Abusers who use coercive control don’t just manipulate one person—they manipulate everyone around them, including their own children. As a protective parent, whether you’ve left the relationship or are still navigating it, how can you empower your child to recognize manipulation and maintain their sense of self?

In this episode, we dive deep into:

✔️ How coercive control tactics—like triangulation, gaslighting, and emotional withholding—are used against children
 ✔️ The subtle and overt ways abusers condition kids to doubt themselves and comply with their demands
 ✔️ Why strengthening your bond with your child is the first and most critical step in protecting them
 ✔️ How to foster open communication and critical thinking without “disparaging” the other parent (and putting your legal case at risk)
 ✔️ Practical strategies to help children recognize manipulation and trust their own perceptions
 ✔️ How to teach emotional intelligence, body awareness, and discernment in an age-appropriate way

🎙 Why This Matters:
Coercive control isn’t always loud—it’s often the silent conditioning that strips a child of their developing identity. As a safe parent, you can give your child the tools to recognize manipulation and make empowered choices, even in the most challenging co-parenting situations.

Referrenced Links:"
Episode 101: The Protective Parent’s Guide to Parenting with Guest Robyn Gobbel, MSW - https://www.buzzsprout.com/1991648/episodes/15091121

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