Why do kids sometimes - or a lot of the time! - suddenly act much younger…or sneakier?! In this episode, we use Dr. Bruce Perry’s concept of state-dependent functioning to reframe some of the baffling behaviors as signs of stress, not signs of defiance.

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In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why regression and baby talk are symptoms of a nervous system in distress 
• How lying and stealing are driven by survival states
• What it means when your child’s sense of time collapses and they can’t think about future consequences

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• All Behavior Makes Sense Download
• The Club!

Read the full transcript at:  RobynGobbel.com/babytalk

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