Brain First Parenting with Eileen Devine

Ep. 28 | When the World Feels Too Big: Your Child’s Window of Tolerance


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SUMMARY - In this episode, Eileen explains what it means for a child with a neurobehavioral condition to live with a narrow window of tolerance as a result of their unique neurobiology, specifically their fragile nervous system. She walks listeners through how the brain and nervous system help each of us manage life stressors, and why this is often difficult for individuals with brain-based differences.


TAKEAWAYS:

  • The "window of tolerance" is a concept developed by Dr. Dan Siegel, to describe the optimal zone of “arousal” for a person to function in everyday life. 
  • Each person's behaviors reflect whether or not they are inside their window of tolerance.
  • Kids and teens living with a neurobehavioral condition means they may struggle with emotional regulation skills, meaning their window of tolerance for life's most minor stressors is challenged.
  • When an individual struggles with these cognitive skills and lives with a fragile nervous system, as a result of their brain-based differences, they require accommodations that support these lagging skills and their nervous system.
  • Cognitive fatigue is another important layer to understanding a child's window of tolerance and why it might be especially narrow.


RESOURCES:


Brain First Parenting Podcast: Ep. 21 | Why Your Child Melts Down: The Hidden Impact of Cognitive Fatigue


Blog: Understanding the Window of Tolerance - Part 1

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