The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

Ep. 43: There is No Such Thing as Self-Regulation! Podcast Swap with Empowered to Connect


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Y'all- I'm on vacation!  Well not really, I'm still working but I need a rest from recording new podcasts!  40 episodes in a row!  Not bad for a podcast on a whim ;)

Today I'm sharing with you a podcast episode from when I was a guest on The Empowered to Connect podcast.  It was one of my favorite interviews ever because it felt like I became instant friends with the hosts, JD and Tona.  Oh my, did we laugh.  You could say we discovered we were kindred spirits.

JD and Tona had asked me on their podcast to speak about a blog article I wrote called Self-Regulation Doesn't Exist. 

Yeah I know I know, it's a bit of a provocative title which isn't really my style.

But hey, it piqued JD and Tona's interest and ultimately led to the most fun interview!!!

Here's the summary.  Self-regulation is internalized co-regulation.  It only develops after someone experiences about 9 million moments of co-regulation.  It's a simple but profound mindset shift.  It changes everything!

So give it a listen and then let me know what you think (though I might not reply at first because I'm on vacation!!!!!!!!)

Be sure to search for Empowered to Connect in your podcast play and hit subscribe.  Check out all the amazing work they are doing over on their website: https://empoweredtoconnect.org/

Goodies you can find on my website:

FREE Brilliance of Attachment eBook at https://robyngobbel.com/ebook
FREE masterclass on What Behavior Really Is and How to Change It at https://robyngobbel.com/masterclass

CLICK HERE to read about The Club and join the waitlist for the next time we welcome new members

Making Sense of Baffling Behaviors: A FREE audio-only training for professionals who work with the families of kids with big, baffling behaviors!

Yes! FREE! You'll listen on your own time, right in your podcast app.

RobynGobbel.com/BafflingBehaviors for all the details and to sign up!

It starts May 5 and will be available to listen to until May 12. But don't wait to sign up!

Check Out All Robyn's Free Resources!
You can download all sorts of free resources, including webinars, eBook, and infographics about topics such as lying, boundaries, and co-regulation!

RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources

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Join The Club (or get on the waiting list!) over at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub

Hop on the waiting list for Being With- an immersive professional training program exploring the neurobiology of big, baffling behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BeingWith

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