Why can’t you relax—even when you're safe? Why does your body feel wired, your thoughts racing, your sleep disrupted? If you’ve survived narcissistic abuse, hyper-vigilance may have become your default mode—but few people understand what that really means.

In this episode, Lynn unpacks the lived experience of hyper-vigilance after narcissistic trauma. We don’t just talk about what it is—we ask what it’s trying to protect you from.

• Do you find yourself constantly scanning for danger, even in quiet rooms?
• Do small changes in someone’s tone, behavior, or silence feel threatening?
• Do you feel physically and emotionally exhausted by your own alertness?

That’s not paranoia. It’s survival. And it didn’t come from nowhere.

Lynn explores how narcissistic abuse conditions survivors to stay on edge—anticipating moods, scanning for criticism, bracing for emotional whiplash. It’s not weakness. It’s adaptation. But when it lingers long after the danger is gone, it can steal your peace, your sleep, and your sense of safety.

This conversation is for the ones who still flinch when the phone rings. Who overanalyze every silence. Who can’t stop checking the room.

It’s not just in your head. And you’re not broken.

Learn why this happens, how trauma hardwires the nervous system, and what healing may begin to look like.

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