May 13, 2025

Ep. 63 The Hotline #6: peeing your pants, birth trauma, trusting others to watch your kids & are we just overthinking all the parenting info?!

1 hour 6 minutes

Back with another round of The Hotline, where we answer your real, unfiltered questions straight from the DMs. No gatekeeping over here — just us, oversharing as always and trying to figure out motherhood together.

We’re talking about the stuff no one warns you about, the things keeping you up at night, and all the “wait, is this just me?!” moments. Let’s get into it:

This Week We Cover:

– Peeing your pants every time you sneeze (yes, still)
– When your baby is way more chaotic than the chill ones at music class
– How to know if you’re actually ready for baby #2
– Feeling like everyone else’s birth was perfect… and yours wasn’t
– Losing a friendship after a miscarriage (and you don’t know what to say)
– Trusting other's to watch your kids without spiraling
– A mom yelling at your kid (and you never looked at her the same again)
– Birth trauma and feeling worthless after a “not ideal” experience
– Parenting information overload: are we just overthinking it all?!

Other Episode Callouts:

– Prepping for baby #2 → Listen to Ep. 49: Things We Were Nervous About Going From 1 to 2 Kids
– Navigating loss and friendship → Ep. 10: Light After Loss with Katrina
– Postpartum workouts & confidence boost → Ep. 56 with Megan Roup
– MIL won’t respect your boundaries? Say less.

No question is too weird, too heavy, or too small. We’re all in this together — germs, drama, leaky bladders and all.

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(PS!! If you listen on Spotify, you can scroll down and leave a comment for us to read back and keep the convo going!)

GIVEAWAY!!!

To keep the Mother’s Day celebrations going just a tad longer we have put together a little giveaway to treat some of the amazing mommies in our community!

2 lucky ladies will win the ultimate mom bundle ($150+ value), we’ll curate it based on where you’re at in your motherhood journey (pregnant, postpartum, newish mom etc!)

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1). Make sure you’re following all 3 Instagram accounts: @didwejustbecomemilfs @taylaburke @torrsim

2). repost your fave episode to your stories with a link for friends to listen too! (make sure to tag us so that we can see)

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***Gentle reminder that many of the conversations we have stem from personal experience. We always recommend running everything past your trusted professional team of caregivers. We also strive to be a place of support for all women and their unique circumstances by highlighting the inspiring stories of other women & professionals in their field of work. We love you! xx Tayla & Tori

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By Tayla Burke & Tori Dietz

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