Timestamps:

00:00 Intro 00:30 Meet out guest- Ilana Dunn Soloman! 1:15 How do you know when you're ready to start dating again? 03:00 It's okay to try it out and see how you feel 4:00 Everyone's journey is different 5:45 What do you do when your friends and family are pressuring you to date again? 7:00 As a friend, what can you can do to help your friend through a breakup? 08:15 Common dating mistakes when you start dating after a breakup 08:30 You're actually in a great position 09:45 Getting attached to first dates 10:15 It's okay to slow down and let yourself enjoy the dating process 11:30 Enjoy the new relationship energy 12:00 What do you do when you feel overwhelmed with dating? 12:15 Focus on the facts 13:50 Human's love to make stories 14:50 If the story you're telling yourself doesn't feel good-tell yourself a different story 15:15 How we feed into overwhelm 16:35 The people we love have their own stories too 17:15 The power of discernment 18:00 Trust your gut 18:15 What to do when you're afraid of getting hurt again? 19:45 They want you to be the right person for them 20:45 The power of vulnerability 21:20 What do you do if you're afraid of getting rejected? 21:30 Rejection is redirection 21:45 Rejection isn't about you 22:50 It's not about you 23:20 "I'm looking for a guy in finance" 25:00 In hindisight you may be glad it didn't work out 25:15 You deserve to be with someone who wants to be you 26:15 What are some green flags when you are dating? 29:30 Can you talk about things? Can you navigate life's challenges as partners? 30:00 The beginning should be easy 30:45 Someone being hard to get doesn't make them more desirable 31:15 Can I be myself with this person? 32:00 Do you feel like you have to adjust yourself? 32:30 Where to find Ilana! 33:10 Outro

Podcast Host: Lucy Price

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Ilana Dunn is a Millennial and Gen Z dating expert and lifestyle content creator. Following a successful tenure running Hinge's social media, Ilana embarked on her entrepreneurial journey, founding her own thriving podcast and social media presence. With a genuine "We're all in this together vibe" as highlighted by The New York Times, Ilana's content empowers her audience to navigate life's complexities with empathy, authenticity, and relatability.

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