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In this episode, we unpack what it really means to prioritize your nervous system in relationships—especially after betrayal trauma. We explore the difference between safety and comfort, self-abandonment vs. healthy compromise, and why true healing and connection require discomfort.
We also talk about people-pleasing, setting boundaries, and the deep fear of being “too much”—and how learning to stay with yourself, even when things feel hard, is one of the most powerful things you can do for your relationship with yourself and your partner.
Connect with Me:
📲 Instagram: @healwithcarriejean
✨ Coaching: https://www.resilientlyrising.com/1-1-coaching
💛 Rebuilding Us: Nervous System Based Path to Healing Together After Betrayal - https://www.resilientlyrising.com/rebuildingus
🌀 Reclaiming Safety: Healing Nervous System After Betrayal Course – https://www.resilientlyrising.com/reclaimingsafety
🌿Membership: https://www.resilientlyrising.com/membership
👉 Stay Connected & Keep Rising!
Music by Mircea lancu from Pixabay
“Piano Soft Music” - Surpringing_Media
By Carrie Holladay5
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In this episode, we unpack what it really means to prioritize your nervous system in relationships—especially after betrayal trauma. We explore the difference between safety and comfort, self-abandonment vs. healthy compromise, and why true healing and connection require discomfort.
We also talk about people-pleasing, setting boundaries, and the deep fear of being “too much”—and how learning to stay with yourself, even when things feel hard, is one of the most powerful things you can do for your relationship with yourself and your partner.
Connect with Me:
📲 Instagram: @healwithcarriejean
✨ Coaching: https://www.resilientlyrising.com/1-1-coaching
💛 Rebuilding Us: Nervous System Based Path to Healing Together After Betrayal - https://www.resilientlyrising.com/rebuildingus
🌀 Reclaiming Safety: Healing Nervous System After Betrayal Course – https://www.resilientlyrising.com/reclaimingsafety
🌿Membership: https://www.resilientlyrising.com/membership
👉 Stay Connected & Keep Rising!
Music by Mircea lancu from Pixabay
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