Have you ever wondered if there’s something you do in the bedroom that your partner secretly (or not-so-secretly) wishes you’d stop doing? Well, you’re not alone.

A while back, we asked our audience this very question, and the responses came flooding in. So many, in fact, that we had to bring this topic back for Part 2!

In today’s episode, we’re diving into the most common complaints from partners about what they wish their significant other would stop doing in the bedroom. We’re covering everything from awkward communication habits to frustrating foreplay, plus some surprising grievances about kissing, initiation, and even what happens after the fun is over.

And don’t worry—this isn’t just about calling out the bad. We’re also giving you practical tips on how to improve your sex life by doing more of what your partner actually loves.

💬 Communication blunders

💋 Kissing complaints

🔥 Initiation mistakes

💨 Foreplay fumbles

🍑 Intercourse issues

❌ Anal annoyances

💦 Finishing & aftercare faux pas

This episode is all about getting real and helping you and your partner have a more satisfying, connected, and frustration-free sex life.

🎧 Listen now and find out if you’re guilty of any of these common mistakes!

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