🎙️ Welcome to our very first coaching episode!

Ever feel stuck in your sex life — like you know things could be better but have no idea how to fix them? That’s exactly where today’s couple is.

In this special, brand-new format, we’re coaching a real life couple, and diving deep into mismatched desire, stress, and the invisible walls keeping them from a more connected, fulfilling sex life.

We break down:

💬 When one partner feels standoffish about sex – What’s really behind the hesitation?

⚖️ Balancing work, kids & intimacy – Why stress kills desire (and what to do about it).

🔄 Breaking out of a relationship rut – Feeling stuck? Here’s how to start making real changes.

🔥 What happens when the woman has the higher sex drive – And how to navigate it without resentment.

✨ How to actually change your sex life – Small, doable steps that make a big difference.

If you’ve ever felt like you and your partner keep missing each other when it comes to intimacy — this episode is for you.

And stick around until the end because we have a special announcement you won’t want to miss!

Links & Resources

💖 Join Deeper – our new relationship membership!

Want more expert-backed support for your love life? Get access to our entire library of courses and guides, exclusive monthly live events with us, and Vanessa AI — your personal, on-demand relationship coach. 👉 vmtherapy.com/deeper

🔑 Take The Intimacy Quiz: Your Key To Love That Lasts

Not sure where to start? Take our quiz to find out exactly what your relationship needs most right now. 👉 vmtherapy.com/5keys

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