Have you ever wanted a peek inside a man’s brain? 🧠

We’re back with Part 3 of one of our most talked-about episode series — answering all the burning, bizarre, and brutally honest questions you’ve always wanted to ask men.

This week, we’re diving into what men really think about everything from doggy style to aging to the internet daddy of the moment, Pedro Pascal.

What are men actually looking at during doggy style?

What do they think when they see a woman who’s prettier than their partner?

Is it true they can literally… think about nothing?

How do they feel about things like…

Women aging, messy buns, leg hair, and more

How do they stay so chill about daily life stuff (kid schedules, groceries, appointments)?

What really keeps them engaged in a relationship?

This one is honest, funny, and surprisingly vulnerable. And of course, Xander’s not holding back.

🔗 Links & Resources:

🎧 What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 1 ➡️ https://vmtherapy.com/episode56

🎧 What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 2 ➡️ https://vmtherapy.com/episode69

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