Food Shrinks

Episode 43: Sick, Guilty, and Learning to Rest - Choosing Self-Compassion in Recovery


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What happens when getting sick stirs up shame, fear, and old recovery patterns? In this vulnerable and heartfelt episode, Molly, Molly, and Clarissa open up about how illness collides with productivity, worthiness, and the deep-seated belief that saying “no” makes us unlovable. From midnight panic at a friend’s house to pushing through vacations with fevers, the Food Shrinks get honest about how hard it is to prioritize rest—and how powerful it is when we finally give ourselves permission.

Through personal stories and raw reflection, they explore: • Why illness can feel so personal and shameful, even years into recovery. • The tug-of-war between people-pleasing and self-care. • How childhood invalidation around sickness echoes into adulthood. • Practical ways to practice grace, compassion, and trust when your body demands rest.

This episode is equal parts funny, relatable, and deeply validating for anyone who’s ever felt guilty about slowing down. Spoiler: your worth is not tied to productivity, and you are lovable—even in bed with the flu.

Takeaways: • Small choices (like saying “no” to plans while sick) can be huge wins in recovery. • Self-compassion often means taking the advice you’d give a friend. • Old stories about being “too much” or “a burden” may resurface when we’re ill—and that’s where healing work lives. • Rest isn’t weakness; it’s resistance to burnout and a radical act of self-love.

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The content of our show is educational only. It does not supplement or supersede your healthcare provider's professional relationship and direction. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified mental health providers with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition, substance use disorder, or mental health concern.

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