The crew normalizes why sugar becomes the go-to “tool” for anxiety, boredom, and stress—and offers harm-reduction pathways that build capacity without shame. You’ll hear personal recovery pivots (like treating your recovery as seriously as your addiction), crowd-out strategies, micro-delays for cravings, and how to use community even if you don’t feel like it. This is practical hope: tiny, doable steps that add up.

What We Cover • You’re not hopeless—you’re human: Brains repeat what works for relief. That’s learning, not moral failure. • Add before you subtract: “Crowd out” by adding protein, fiber, and structure before trying to remove sugar. • Environment tweaks (not ultimatums): Out of sight storage, partner hides, garage stashes, plating treats at the table vs. eating from the bag. • Micro-delays for cravings: 10–20–60 seconds → a few minutes → an hour. Build the “wait” muscle. • Choose your hard, but choose support: We rarely recover alone; groups, meetings, lives, or any community can be anchors. • Treat recovery like it’s as big as the addiction: Boundaries around meal times, bedtime eating, social plans, and high-risk settings. • Compassionate curiosity: If you do eat it, slow down, plate it, and notice what it’s solving—then find other ways to meet that need. Practical Try-This List • Protein + Produce First: Keep easy protein (rotisserie chicken, eggs, edamame) and a “default veg” ready three ways this week. • Plate & Pause: If you’re having the thing, put it on a plate, sit at the table, and take 3 slow breaths first. • 10-Second Ladder: Delay 10s → 30s → 2m. Text a friend while you wait. • Out-of-Sight Ops: Ask a partner/roomie to store trigger foods out of view (garage, trunk, top shelf bin). • One Boundary This Week: Pick a single non-negotiable (e.g., “no eating after 7pm” or “no eating in the car”). • One Connection Anchor: Pick one community touchpoint (a meeting, live, or accountability check-in) and show up.

Host Insights • Molly C.: “My recovery only started working when I treated it like the serious condition it was—my recovery had to be as big as my addiction.” • Clarissa: “I didn’t have the skills yet, so I built a ‘home treatment’ season—invited people over when I didn’t want to, because it kept me safe.” • Molly P.: “Years of tool-building mattered. Curiosity over shame lets you add supports first and make removal feel possible later.”

Key Takeaways 1. Hope is a skill you practice, not a feeling you wait for. 2. Add supportive structure before subtracting the substance. 3. Micro-wins compound. Ten seconds today can become an hour next month. 4. Community is medicine. You don’t have to like it to benefit from it.

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