Sometimes we have days where we are dealing with so much from our kids that we just don’t like them. In those situations, we usually try whatever we can think of to get them to change. But they don’t, and we become even more frustrated and resentful. Fortunately, there is another simple shift that alleviates so many of those negative feelings towards our kids. Even better, this “long-game” strategy is more likely to motivate your children to make changes on their own, without you having to force the