In this vulnerable and wisdom-packed episode, Lily sits down with Liz, a former Main Character Dating client, to talk about what it really takes to come back to yourself after a heartbreaking, sudden breakup—and how that healing work can lead to the most aligned love of your life.

Together, they discuss:

• Why we feel “behind” in dating (especially as queer late bloomers)

• The emotional labor we carry as single people and how to release it

• How to trust yourself again after a breakup or identity shift

• The shame-desire cycle and how to break it

• Liz’s journey coming out later in life and finding queer love with deep emotional resonance

• What self-trust really looks like after pain

Whether you’re newly single, starting to date again, or exploring your sexuality later in life—this conversation will meet you with compassion, truth, and the reminder: you’re not too late, and you don’t have to settle.

Work with Lily: 

3 Steps to Attract the Right Partner as a Late Bloomer If you’ve felt behind in dating, this free training is for you. Learn how to:

• Release embarrassment and claim what you really want

• Attract dates without overthinking or scarcity

• Build a joyful, unbothered dating strategy rooted in feminist self-trust

RSVP here- https://www.datebrazen.com/training

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