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“How do couples stop fighting about the same issues over and over?”

“What’s the best way to fix communication problems in a marriage?”

“How can I stop arguments with my partner from spiraling out of control?”

“What should I do when my partner shuts down during a fight?”

What does a love and sex expert do when she gets into an argument with her husband? If you think the answer is “handle it perfectly every time,” think again. In this candid and funny re-release episode of Sex, Love and Elephants, Dr. Cheryl and her sweetheart reveal that even experts stumble. From morning rituals and dog walks to timeouts and three-breath hugs, they share how they reconnect after communication breakdowns—and why intimacy is the foundation of long-term love.

This conversation reminds us that no couple is perfect, but with humor, honesty, and the right tools, you can fight fair, repair faster, and come back stronger. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the same old arguments, this episode shows that imperfection is normal—and that building intimacy is the key to creating a relationship that lasts.

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In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

(03:20) Why open communication is harder than it looks—even for the experts

(07:25) The daily rituals that keep Cheryl and her husband connected

(13:26) What happens when you’re “flooded” during an argument—and why logic goes out the window

(19:25) How touch and presence can restore connection after a fight

(26:37) Why partnership is about more than just coexisting under the same roof

(40:35) Today’s LoveByte: Intimacy is the base of the passion triangle—for a very good reason

(27:09) Their “Adventure Birthday Challenge” — and why you should steal it

(40:45) Today’s LoveByte: Intimacy is the base of the Passion Triangle for a very good reason. If you can’t talk about it, you can’t make it better. Learn to listen, learn to communicate to understand—and please, for the love of all that exists, be willing to be happy instead of being right.

Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl’s book Buddha’s Bedroom is a great resource! 

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