Been There Got Out Podcast

Exploring Layers of Trauma & Recovery


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Trauma therapist Dr. Rebecca Vazquez joins us to unravel the intricate links between anxiety, our physical bodies, and the mind, with a special focus on the influential vagus nerve. She introduces us to the "drop three" technique, a simple yet effective method for alleviating anxiety by relaxing the jaw, shoulders, and hands to signal safety to the body. Throughout our conversation, Dr. Vazquez offers invaluable advice on staying grounded in high-stress situations, like using sensory items to maintain composure, and highlights the calming power of familiar scents. Our discussion takes a deeper turn as we examine the often misunderstood emotions of anger and trauma, especially within marginalized communities. 

Dr. Vazquez provides insight into how anger can be a constructive force, akin to a brick that builds rather than destroys when managed properly. We also explore the nature of trauma, which, beyond dramatic events, can stem from prolonged emotional neglect. The concept of the "window of tolerance" is shared, offering listeners a framework for understanding the nervous system's response to stress and the importance of processing emotions within a manageable range. The healing journey continues with an exploration of bilateral stimulation's role in recovery. 

Dr. Vazquez explains how activities like running and dancing can help process subconscious thoughts and emotions. We touch on the therapeutic power of EMDR, voice, and writing as tools for personal healing. As we conclude, we celebrate a heartwarming moment of international connection, receiving greetings from Poland, which reminds us of the power of virtual interactions to unite people across the globe. Dr. Vazquez’s insights and her work at SANA Counseling and Consulting promise to leave a lasting impression on listeners seeking healing and empowerment.

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