We've all heard the phrase "living your best life," but what does that really mean? This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Tracy Pattin, host of the celebrated Wondery podcast Hollywood and Crime, and expert on living her best solo (not single!) life. Tracy and Kimmy discuss the empowering nature of finding comfort and confidence in being alone.   EPISODE 246 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Fall In Love With Yourself:  Interview With Tracy Pattin   Kimmy shares a story about the invaluable advice given to her by her mother in the aftermath of her divorce.  Listen in to hear Kimmy identify the difference between internal and external validation and how to detect which one is driving your happiness. When you allow yourself to slow down and not rush towards a new relationship for comfort, but rather focus on relying on yourself to find peace, you will be stronger for it and attract healthier relationships.  The moment you begin to discover that power within you, the more you will attract healthy, secure people into your life. Tracy talks about how she uses the ritual and routine to keep her present, focused and centered each day. Stay tuned for a lesson from Tracy based on a career in entertainment to provide strategies around facing the fear of rejection. You'll hear how having a kind, loving relationship with yourself is a key factor in not attracting relationships that don't serve you.    If you are struggling with being alone or a crippling fear of rejection, reach out to Kimmy for a FREE 30-minute call https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ to map out a strategy to enrich your solo life. Plus, Kimmy has a brand 6-week course culminating in a retreat, Spark Your Sexy: Live! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/ for women coming up this July in gorgeous California. Start your journey to ignite your sexy confidence with a group of like-minded solo women to become the best versions of yourself. Space is limited so reach out to Kimmy here to save your spot!   EPISODE 246 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Fall In Love With Yourself:  Interview With Tracy Pattin.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers