In order to have a successful, fulfilling and healthy relationship with someone else, you have to love yourself first. I know what you're thinking -- that's easy to say but it's a lot harder to put into practice! How can you jump into the dating world successfully, all while working on your own self-love? This week on the Charisma Quotient Kimmy interviews award-winning actress, writer and filmmaker Wendy Wilkins to dig into the process of loving yourself on your drive towards success. EPISODE 168 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Falling In Love With Yourself: Interview With Wendy Wilkins Wendy dives right in by sharing her unconventional journey from being a cop, to one of the top realtors in Australia, to her writing and working in the creative arts. Kimmy and Wendy discuss the pitfalls of compartmentalizing your life. If you're experiencing success in your career but your personal life doesn't stack up, this conversation will ask you to identify the strengths you can bring from one area of your life into another. And, you'll hear one of Wendy's secret tricks to boosting confidence that you can use to focus before you spend time on dating apps and especially before you go on a date! If you've ever found yourself prematurely getting into a relationship (or a "situationship") before you're ready, it could be a sign that you are masking a deeper issue with not loving yourself. Right now is the perfect time to work on yourself. Dating is simply a tool you can use at different stages of the process to get clarity on what you want, what works for you and what doesn't. Kimmy brings up a story of a recent client of hers that shows the power of what can happen when you lift the pressure off and let go of the attachment to an outcome. Listen in to hear about the importance of giving yourself what you need instead of waiting for others to do so and being comfortable doing things alone. Once you access the strength within, you'll open yourself up to finding a lasting love that complements your life instead of complicating it. You have endless resources at your fingertips that are designed to help you start loving yourself. First, check out Kimmy's exclusive audio course *This May Be Why You Suck at Dating*! https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. Perhaps you have Chief qualities, just like Wendy. And, if you've noticed that you're just passively swiping through dating apps, numbing out and not getting anywhere, you're invited to join Kimmy's new Flirt Immersion Experience coming up on Saturday, December 5 https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ In this small interactive workshop, you will actually practice your skills that will bring control back into your dating life. Take this opportunity to put yourself in the driver's seat and take direct action to level-up your dating game! But hurry slots are limited. EPISODE 168 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Falling In Love With Yourself: Interview With Wendy Wilkins. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group