Do you flirt intentionally to capture someone’s eye? Flirting is one of the most common challenges people face when dating. If you're not a confident flirt, chances are you're holding back because you don't want to come off as cheesy, unintelligent or give someone the wrong impression. On today's show, you'll learn the *REAL* definition of flirting and hear Kimmy coach Keren, a travel nurse who's had some bad luck in relationships and wants to get back out there but worries because she doesn’t know how to flirt.    EPISODE 201 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirting With Intention:  Coaching With Kimmy   Kimmy asks Keren about her interpretation of flirting and digs into what about it feels uncomfortable. If you have ever felt nervous, anxious or repelled from flirting in the past, this conversation will help shift your perspective about what flirting is so that it's fun and intentional. Keren and Kimmy talk about approaching flirting and dating from a proactive place, as opposed to a reactive place. You'll hear about Keren's upbringing in a big family where learning and observing were valued and how that plays into her current dating life. If you are like Keren, a high achiever who is often focused on doing the *right* thing, this episode will help you let go of the outcome a bit more and just focus on being purposely playful while staying present. Listen in for Kimmy's expert tips about the science of flirting, how being direct is more effective than being ambiguous and how to put out the right smoke signals to let people know you're open and interested in making connections. With such a demanding job, one of the biggest challenges in dating for Keren is her schedule. With being so busy, Kimmy talks to Keren about dating herself and practicing getting comfortable speaking with men without the intention of getting into a relationship. This episode stresses the importance of practicing with baby steps and not getting ahead of things.    If you're like Keren and bite size assignments motivate you and are hitting a roadblock in flirting, Kimmy can support you on your journey! In just one 30-minute conversation, you might see your love life in a new way. Book your time here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And, Kimmy is launching a brand new program just for women called, Get Your Sexy Back! To find out more, go to askkimmy.com and drop her a note mentioning you're interested. Space will be limited so sign up now to get on the priority list and get your sexy back! And if you just want to start with the bite size assignment, you can Awaken Your Feminine Energy to be sexy, flirty and confident with Kimmy’s new FREE dating video series by just signing up here awakenyourfeminine.com.  There is NO excuse to not inquire about any of these opportunities to get you going.   EPISODE 201 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirting With Intention:  Coaching With Kimmy.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups