I Wish You Knew

From Avoidant To Engaged — Her 8-Week Shift | Adam Lane Smith


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What does it take to shift from avoidant attachment to secure, engaged connection in just eight weeks?

In this episode, Adam talks with a client who shares her powerful story of breaking free from lifelong avoidance and building safety in love.

Topics Covered:

👉 How early childhood trauma and lack of safety shaped avoidant attachment
👉 The role of unhealthy relationships in reinforcing avoidance patterns
👉 The process of building safety through healthy masculine presence
👉 Practical tools for regulating the nervous system and creating trust
👉 Learning to co-regulate and receive love without fear
👉 Moving from hyper-independence to interdependence in relationships
👉 Redefining femininity and partnership in a secure, balanced way

If you enjoyed watching this episode, you might love 'Dr. Orion Taraban: Why Modern Men Are Failing at Intimacy'. Watch here: https://youtu.be/rYdzdGReDqg

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