Welcome back to another episode of Coaching with Kimmy where Kimmy has conversations with clients who are navigating dating challenges and searching for practical advice they can use in their love lives right now. In this episode, you'll meet Dustin, a single guy in his early 40s who's looking to improve the quality of boring conversations on dates by showing his true, authentic self more easily in a flirty way. A self-described "rebel without a clue," Dustin is on a journey to support his personal growth in learning how to go from the friendzone to the funzone with women and progress on dates.    EPISODE 239 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  From Friendzone To Funzone:  Coaching with Kimmy   Kimmy and Dustin jump in by talking about Dustin's upbringing as an only child and the struggles he had with socializing growing up. Kimmy extracts how his upbringing now holds him back from his inner playfulness or spontaneous spirit, causing him to get in his head and hesitate on dates. Instead of letting a conversation flow naturally, Dustin talks about how his tendency to pre-plan topics, overcorrects himself and appears inauthentic while dating. This conversation is a great reminder of the power of curiosity to change the game when it comes to having captivating conversations. Instead of worrying about how you come off or trying to force a particular result, what if you went in with the intention to be curious about your date?  Kimmy and Dustin do some dating role play where Dustin shares a funny story about something that happened to him recently. Kimmy and Dustin break down the story and discuss how emotions can enhance the stories you tell. Storytelling is an incredibly effective tool to create genuine emotional connection and empathy when dating! You'll hear great tips on how to improve your storytelling, get out of your head and create deeper connections more quickly.    If you're tired of feeling emotionally drained on dates from trying to keep up the flow of conversation or you're just plain BORED, book a free 30 minute call with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Kimmy can help you map out a plan to get out of the friend zone and into the fun zone!    EPISODE 239 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  From Friendzone To Funzone:  Coaching with Kimmy.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups