The One Day At A Time Recovery Podcast

From Shame to Strength: Reframing Your Past as Your Greatest Asset


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Today I sit down with Peter Bailey, author of Be Epic: Reframe Your Past to Navigate Your Future, president of the Prouty Project, and a man with 43 years of sobriety. Peter started drinking at 13, got sober at 22 on Block Island, Rhode Island, and has spent decades since helping people in recovery and corporate leadership see their stories through a completely different lens — one rooted in Joseph Campbell's Hero's Journey model.

In this episode, you'll learn:

  • How reframing your past can turn shame into your greatest superpower
  • What the Hero's Journey model is and how it maps directly onto recovery
  • Why comparison is a "disease" that disconnects us from ourselves and others
  • How to use "defense mechanisms that don't work anymore" as your 4th step inventory
  • The power of celebrating recovery milestones and daily wins
  • Peter's daily armor-up practice: the sobriety coin, sunrise ritual, and 10th step
  • Why willingness to be willing is itself a revolutionary act
  • How the Prouty Project uses leadership development to build resilience in recovery

Action Items:

  • Write down one story from your past you've been carrying as shame. Ask: what strength did surviving that require?
  • Map your current challenge onto the Hero's Journey. Where are you on the road?
  • Practice disclosing one unexpressed expectation in a key relationship this week.
  • Add one small "armoring up" ritual to your morning.

Resources Mentioned:

  • Be Epic: Reframe Your Past to Navigate Your Future by Peter Bailey
  • The Hero's Journey -The Joseph Campbell Collection
  • The Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous
  • The Prouty Project: https://peterbailey.com

👊🏼Need help applying this information to your own life?

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