Having the same realization five times doesn't mean you failed the first four.

Episode 3 of Walk With Jon. No studio, no script, no guest, no editing. Jon Vroman on a walking trail near his house, thinking out loud. The audio is rough on purpose. He even fumbles an old saying mid-walk and leaves it in: "Like I said, these are unscripted mistakes and all."

Jon walked this one listening to his own voice notes from the last five to eight years. A week earlier he'd pulled out a bin holding 30 to 50 journals, most of them a quarter filled and abandoned. Going back through all of it, he noticed he keeps having the same realizations, over and over, each time a little deeper. His take on why: "It's not about learning something new. It's about remembering something true." Self-reflection is a workout, not a graduation. You don't go to the gym once and stay strong.

He's honest about the other side of reviewing decades of your own notes: the shame of feeling like you should be further ahead, and the sheer number of things a man is supposed to master. But the point of this walk is the honoring. Front Row Dads turns ten in October 2026, back in Philadelphia where it started, and Jon has watched men keep showing up for that entire run. His ask this morning is simple: put your hand on your heart and thank yourself for showing up and doing the work.

IN THIS WALK:

• Listening back to five to eight years of his own voice notes
• The bin of 30 to 50 journals, most of them mostly blank
• "It's not always about learning something new, it's about remembering what's true"
• The shame of "I should be further ahead," and the comparison game
• Ten years of Front Row Dads, October 2026, back to Philadelphia
• Hand on your heart: thank yourself for showing up
• The homework: a friend found one recurring pattern across 25 years of journals. What are yours?

Jon reads every reply. Send your thoughts to [email protected]. And if this one hit home, share it with another brother and start the conversation.

Front Row Dads is a brotherhood of family men with businesses, not businessmen with families. To learn more, go to frontrowdads.com.

"I would say to my wife, I need to get to the coffee shop by seven, because I couldn't be hassled by the kids in the morning."

For ten years, Jon Vroman has asked the questions on this show. To close the first week of Good Questions, he answers them. This is Jon in the hot seat: how the man who founded Front Row Dads would have introduced himself before it existed (speaker, charity founder, ultramarathoner... and, toward the end of the list, a husband and dad), what he believed fatherhood was in the early years, and what he would do differently if he could start over.

He is honest about the survival seasons, six figures in the bank to six figures in debt, and about the beliefs underneath his choices. Then he lays out what changed: a calendar that puts his kids first, the shift from providing for his boys to nurturing them, the rite of passage he is building through their 10-to-20 decade, and the one invitation he would give every father listening.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• "What do you do?" answered by the old Jon and the new one
• What he valued before: achievement, progress, significance, and a calendar that proved it
• The coffee-shop-by-seven confession, and the belief about fatherhood hiding underneath it
• Six figures in the bank to six figures in debt: the survival season nobody romanticizes
• The 7-to-9am block on his calendar that just says "kids"
• Nurturing the spirit of the child in front of you, and the 10-to-20 rite of passage decade
• The invitation: find your crew and lean in all the way

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They're about building a legacy—at home and in your work.

Curated by successful, family-first entrepreneurs.

👉 Get the full list: https://frontrowdads.com/podcast-books

WANT THE FULL STORY?

This conversation comes from "Fatherhood Before and After FRD: Jon Vroman." Hear the whole thing.

And if his invitation landed, that is what the brotherhood is. Learn more at frontrowdads.com

"Do you ever lose your cool? Do you ever just yell?"

It gets asked point-blank in this one, and the three answers could not be more different.

Ryan Deiss, founder of DigitalMarketer, says he is not a yeller, then tells you exactly where his line is and what happened the one time somebody made his wife feel unsafe in her own home.

Connor Beaton, who leads men's work through ManTalks, traces the charge underneath a man's anger back to what it is actually made of, and lays out his move from a medicated way of being to a meditative one.

And then the question turns raw: one of the questions in this episode is not for a guest at all. It is a dad admitting he goes from zero to a hundred in the blink of an eye and asking breathwork coach Charles Clay, can you fix me? Clay's answer, catching where anger shows up in your body and naming what you need out loud, is a tool you can use tonight.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• "I'm not a yeller": Deiss on living at a three and what it takes to hit his eleven
• Why no yelling, no slammed doors, and no thrown things is a household rule, not a temperament
• Beaton on the internal charge under a man's anger, and where it comes from
• Moving from medicating the intensity to working with it: breath, cold, stillness
• "Zero to a hundred in a blink": the honest confession at the center of the episode
• Clay's toolkit: the 4-8 breath, finding the anger in your body, and saying what you need

💼 These books helped us integrate purpose at work and peace at home.

They've transformed how we show up—for our clients, our kids, and ourselves.

📖 Get the list: https://frontrowdads.com/podcast-books

WANT THE FULL STORY?

All three of these came from full episodes worth your time:

- Ryan Deiss on avoiding the regrets of success as an entrepreneur father: frontrowdads.com/495

- Connor Beaton on shattering the mask of masculinity: frontrowdads.com/378

- Charles Clay on the advantages of feeling more, not just better: frontrowdads.com/317

"Every decision I've ever made in my life, good and bad, has been in an effort to get my father to tell me he loved me."

This one moves in three parts: the apology you owe your kids, the dance you are still in with your own dad, and the forgiveness that sets you free. It starts at a kitchen table, where a dad raising his voice over math homework suddenly recognizes the scene, because he lived it at his son's age, on the other side of the table.

Psychologist Dr. Kelly Flanagan takes the question everyone asks after a moment like that, "Did I repair it okay?", and reframes the whole thing: your kids don't need you to be perfect, and an apology is a gift, because it teaches them they don't have to be perfect either.

Then Ryland Englehart of Cafe Gratitude gets asked for a painful memory of his father and lands somewhere more honest: gratitude first, and a dance with his dad's expectations that is still alive today, because a son spends his life trying to prove his father wrong or make his father proud.

And then Michael Chernow, who built The Meatball Shop and Seamore's, answers the hardest version of the question: have you forgiven him? What follows- a father lost during Chernow's addiction, and the moment years later when he finally heard the words he had been chasing- is one of the most powerful stretches of tape in our archive.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• The kitchen-table moment: recognizing your own childhood wound mid-yell
• "We worry from our wounds": why your reaction is about you before it is about them
• Flanagan on why apologizing to your kids is a gift, not a failure
• The empathy-vs-boundaries pendulum our generation of parents swings on
• Englehart on the expectations dance with his dad, still running today
• "Prove his father wrong or make his father proud": the paradigm most men live inside
• Chernow on hating his father, losing him, and the breathwork session where he finally heard "I love you"
• What forgiveness actually freed him to build at home

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WANT THE FULL STORY?

All three of these came from full episodes worth your time:

• Dr. Kelly Flanagan on the two things every parent must hold in balance: frontrowdads.com/85
• Ryland Englehart on growing up wild, and the rooftop in San Francisco where he made amends with his dad: frontrowdads.com/488
• Michael Chernow on building a legacy at home, not just in business: frontrowdads.com/477

Give your kids enough that they can do anything, but not so much that they can do nothing.

That Warren Buffett line is where this one starts. You worked hard so your family could have a good life. So how do you keep the life you built from softening the kids you love? This is the first episode of Good Questions, where we pull the best questions dads have asked across ten years of podcasts and member-only conversations, and stack the answers worth keeping. Four dads take this one on: Mike McCarthy on being honest with your kids about your wealth and what the trust will and will not do, Chad Willardson on raising abundance-minded kids instead of scarcity-minded ones, Scott Donnell on why you should let them waste some of their own money, and Dan Miller on how early kids should start working (his answer involves a rebuilt motorcycle and a 10-year-old).

IN THIS EPISODE:

• The Buffett rule: enough to do anything, not so much they do nothing
• What to actually tell your kids about your money, and what the trust should gate
• Overpaying your kids on purpose: $50 book reports and a 12-year-old's dog-walking business
• "Let them buy the Mountain Dew": why a wasted $30 now beats a wasted $3,000 later
• The $410 motorcycle rebuild that taught a 10-year-old to earn what he rides
• Why kids learn economics from life experiences, not from sitting in seats

📚 Want to win at home and in business?

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👉 Get the list: frontrowdads.com/books

WANT THE FULL STORY?

• Dan Miller's full conversation covers raising kids who love what they do, chores vs. paid work, and natural learning. Hear the whole thing: "Raising Kids Who Love What They Do with Dan Miller" -> frontrowdads.com/15
• The McCarthy, Willardson, and Donnell answers come from member-exclusive sessions inside the brotherhood, the kind of conversations that don't happen at a backyard barbecue. If you want in the room, learn more at frontrowdads.com

You can't force a child to make you their mentor. They choose. And most of us are quietly spending that choice on being right.

That's the argument in Hold On to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Mate, and it's the book two dads in this community keep coming back to. In this Bookshelf, they take it from both ends.

John Berardi makes the case that a child is always looking for someone to guide them through life, and that they get to pick who. You can make a kid put on clothes. You can take things away. But you cannot make them choose you as the one they learn from, which is why the attachment has to come before the discipline. And if they don't pick you, they'll pick their peers, sometimes as early as nine. His warning about the book is worth hearing too: it's long, and the practical payoff is in the last few chapters.

Hal Elrod brings the one line he pulled straight out of the book and taped to his fridge, where it's stayed for two years: prioritize the relationship with your child above correcting their behavior. Most of us correct constantly, and we do it at the expense of the bond. Yelling doesn't build influence, it spends it. So he bites his tongue and asks what matters more right now: the relationship or catching them doing something wrong. Nine times out of ten, it's the relationship. He also names the trap on the other side: you threaten, they comply, you feel like you won, and that short-term victory quietly costs you the long game.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• Why a child chooses who leads them, and why you can't force it
• Attachment before discipline: the book's core argument
• What happens if they don't pick you (peers, sometimes by nine years old)
• Leadership by example instead of authority, and why "good kids who follow every rule" isn't the goal
• The paragraph on Hal's fridge: relationship above correction
• Why yelling diminishes your influence instead of building it
• The short-term compliance trap, and what it costs you later
• Berardi's honest warning about reading the book

📘 These aren't just business books.

They're about building a legacy—at home and in your work.

Curated by successful, family-first entrepreneurs.

👉 Get the full list: https://frontrowdads.com/podcast-books

WANT THE FULL STORY?

Both of these came from full episodes worth your time:

• John Berardi's conversation goes into raising kids around wealth, leadership vs. bullying, and asking your kids how to be a better dad. Hear the whole thing: "The 3-Year Old Ninja Warrior with John Berardi" -> frontrowdads.com/122
• Hal Elrod's episode covers the parenting blind spots, protecting family time, and screens. Hear the whole thing: "Marriage, Parenting & Work: A Family Leader's Guide to Success with Hal Elrod" -> frontrowdads.com/338

The greatest gift you can give your kids has nothing to do with them.

Episode 2 of Walk With Jon. No studio, no script, no guest, no editing. Jon Vroman on a walking trail near his house, thinking out loud, this time with his dog Davy along for the walk. The audio is rough on purpose: wind, footsteps, and a dog on a leash are part of the deal.

Jon has been doing interviews for the Front Row Dads book, due out late 2026 or early 2027, and two of those conversations ended up in the same place. The first was about the tagline, family men with businesses, not businessmen with families, and where it came from. In Jon's words, it was born out of failure: first he needed the $5,000 speech to take care of his family, then how could he say no to $10,000, then $30,000, because he was doing it for his family. The question he asks now: do our kids need that extra income, or do they need dad at home?

The second was with a member whose daughter is about to leave home. Her advice to her dad: figure out who you are, and go do those things. That line is the seed of the whole walk, and where it lands is where Jon suspects the book lands too: "The greatest gift that you can give is self-love and self-respect." Not something you tell your kids. Something you model.

IN THIS WALK:

• The Front Row Dads book: interviews underway, out late 2026 or early 2027
• The $5,000 to $30,000 speaking fee trap, and hiding behind "I'm doing it for my family"
• A member's daughter with the best advice on the walk: figure out who you are, and go do those things
• James Van Der Beek, and the identity that survives when illness strips the others away
• Who is Jon without Tatiana?
• Why every unenforced boundary traces back to the same root: self-respect

Jon reads every reply. Send your thoughts to [email protected]. And if this one hit home, share it with another brother and start the conversation.

Front Row Dads is a brotherhood of family men with businesses, not businessmen with families. To learn more, go to frontrowdads.com.

Fatherhood is a series of windows that open and close. The one you're leaving usually never opens again.

For years we've been asking guests on this show some version of the same question: what do you wish you knew before your first kid? For the last day of NEW DAD WEEK, we pulled four of the best answers and put them back to back. No commentary, just four dads who've been through it telling you what they'd want you to know.

You'll hear from Ryan Levesque, Michael Dietrich-Chastain, Farhan Rizvi, and Matt Baudro.

Free field guide for the whole week at frontrowdads.com/newdad.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• Ryan Levesque: fatherhood is forever, and it's a series of windows that close. Remember to remember.
• Michael Dietrich-Chastain: expect reactivity from everyone, don't take it as an attack, and the hard roads are temporary. Stay in the "wow."
• Farhan Rizvi: have grace on yourself. Being a dad is like baseball, where a great batting average is in the .200s.
• Matt Baudro: step back and figure out who your kid actually is, then come alongside them, instead of trying to raise a smaller version of yourself.

THE FULL NEW DAD WEEK:

Part 1: Listen, don't fix (Jason Kreidman)

Part 2: What no one tells dads about postpartum (Suzanne Yatim Aslam)

Part 3: Put your wife first (Steve Olsher)

Part 4: Sleep survival (Mollie Eastman)

Part 5: This one.

You're exhausted, so we made this one short.

Two things worth your tired attention. First, a nearly free trick for kids' bedtime that works with their biology instead of against it: no arguing, no negotiating, just light. And second, a genuinely kind word for couples who've been short with each other lately: sleep-deprived people are not their best selves, and that's not a character flaw.

This is part of NEW DAD WEEK, five short episodes for expecting dads and dads in the first year. Free field guide for the whole week at frontrowdads.com/newdad.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• The light trick: dim the house an hour before bed and watch your kids drift upstairs on their own
• Why light placement signals a child's body that it's time to sleep
• The 90-minute wind-down: big lights off, low lamps on
• Grace for the sleep-deprived marriage, and why weathering the season is the actual strategy

This one came from a longer conversation about sleep, circadian rhythms, and why sleep is a skill you can build. Hear the full episode: frontrowdads.com/431

This is part of NEW DAD WEEK, five short episodes for expecting dads and dads in the first year. Free field guide for the whole week at frontrowdads.com/newdad.

We asked what advice he'd give a new dad. His answer had nothing to do with the baby.

Steve Olsher's advice for men entering fatherhood is to prioritize your wife, above the kids. It sounds backwards, especially when there's a newborn in the house who genuinely needs everything. But his reasoning is hard to argue with: the most important relationship in a family is the one between mom and dad, and when the two of you are off, the whole house feels it. He also makes an uncomfortable case that nearly every conflict traces back to one thing.

This is part of NEW DAD WEEK, five short episodes for expecting dads and dads in the first year. Free field guide for the whole week at frontrowdads.com/newdad.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• Why the strongest thing in your family is the relationship between the two of you
• What happens to couples who let the whole dynamic become about the kids
• The long view: one day they leave, and you're either with your best friend or a stranger
• Why 99 times out of 100 the fight was your fault
• How selfishness quietly runs most conflict, and what to do about it

Hear Steve's full conversation at frontrowdads.com/199.