If you are trying to improve or learn a new skill set, whether that be in love, in business or something else, you will increase your chance of success if you have a strategy. Creating a new habit takes commitment and practice. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Dre Baldwin, a former professional basketball player turned YouTuber, focused on helping people build the mental toughness they need to accomplish their goals.    EPISODE 180 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Gamifying Your Love Life:  Interview With Dre Baldwin   Kimmy kicks this conversation off by asking Dre to dig into his history and how he got to where he is today. You'll hear Dre's story of staying committed to athletics throughout his college career and beyond, playing professional basketball overseas for nearly a decade. Dre and Kimmy talk through how to identify what skills helped bring you success in one area of your life and how you can transfer those to other areas of your life too. This episode is all about the ingredients needed to put yourself into action to gamify your love life.  If you are feeling stuck and aren't taking the necessary steps to go after what you say you want, this conversation will help you take a look in the mirror and truly evaluate if you are willing to put in the effort to make a change. It all comes down to creating an action plan and pinpointing the strategy you need to get going. Listen in to hear a great trick for taking the emotion out of a tough decision, so you can see your path from a bird's eye view and hold yourself accountable. The two discuss how fear of the unknown is often what holds us back from taking action. Dre shares his philosophy of the power of mastering the mental game. Regardless of your talents, personality or physical characteristics that may make you attractive to a potential partner, this conversation draws attention to the mental game going on in your head. The strength of your mental game unlocks the potential of all of the talent you bring to the table. This conversation will prompt you to take stock of your own talents and understand where your confidence lives.    If you are ready to break the patterns that are holding you back from finding love, connect with Kimmy to get started. You can schedule a complimentary strategy call with Kimmy right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Plus, if you want to take it one step further, take a look at Kimmy's audioseries, This May Be Why You Suck at Dating! If you've ever wondered why your romantic endeavors tend to fizzle out, this is your answer. It’s super simple to sign up (it takes about 30 seconds) and you can listen anywhere, in any app right here https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer.