Every woman wants to feel powerful, radiant, untouchable. But not every woman is willing to hold the standard that comes with being that woman.

It goes deeper than aesthetics. It shows in how you treat yourself, how you move through life, and what you allow.

And always remember: being that woman isn’t about being seen. It’s about being solid.

You are the dream. The standard. The woman that makes people level up just by being in your presence. But more than that, you know that everything you desire already lives within you.

Most people don’t realize that true compatibility in relationships begins in the mysterious realm of Hamingja. In Norse tradition, Hamingja refers to a person’s spiritual strength, their unique life force, and the luck or power they carry through their lineage and deeds.

There was a time when men and women worked in sacred partnership. That balance was shattered when systems told men they were meant to lead, and women were meant to serve. This shift didn’t just hurt women, it robbed men of purpose, direction, and their divine role.

In this episode, we trace how women’s bodies went from sacred to controlled. Once seen as life bringers and spiritual guides, women were slowly stripped of power through systems that feared their influence. This is about the moment balance broke, and what it’s cost us.

In this episode, we go deeper into the ancient feminine power they tried to erase. Before patriarchy, goddesses like Inanna, Hathor, and Oshun represented sensuality, wisdom, and divine leadership. Their stories were buried — but the power remains. This isn’t new. It’s remembrance.

This episode kicks off the Holy, Not Whore series — a powerful look at how the feminine was once sacred, not shamed. We explore how women’s sensuality was honored, how sex was spiritual, and how systems flipped the narrative. If you're ready to heal your relationship with your body and power, start here.

In Part Two of Affirmations for Black Women, I’m pouring into your spirit — reminding you that you are the dream, the healer, the masterpiece. These words are your armor and your soft landing. Play this when you need to remember: your power is not up for debate.

Use this meditation anytime you feel disconnected, overwhelmed, or unsure. It’s a practice of coming home to your body, quieting the outside noise, and remembering the truth of who you are.

I've noticed that many people struggle to let beautiful souls exist as they are without feeling the need to control or reshape them. When they realize they cannot dominate or mold someone to their liking, they often turn to destruction instead.